I am a shy person... and there a perosn i work with i like him..
I want to be friends with him... not sure how and i dont want to sound corny and weird???
2007-05-13 13:46:27 · 19 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
say hi, listen when he talks, and find things you have in common and talk about them
2007-05-13 13:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by snowy_wreak 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
most shy people fear being corny and weird that's why thy are shy. your just a Little nervous relax and confidently strike up a conversation and you will find that your not weired and corny but smart and original.
2007-05-13 21:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by shango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to open up, I know it will be hard but, fine out what he likes, from other people, and start from their. Maybe he likes to bowl, say Hay, I heard the other day that you got one heck of a shore at bowling, and that gets him talking about his high Score, and then maybe next time you will be right next to him [BOWLING] **** Luck!
2007-05-13 20:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by buster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, and tell straight out that he's always on your mind.
If it's a sexual kinda of attraction, wear leatherpants(tight) and tell him that if he like's them on you, and that you'll dress up for him all the time.
Make sure he feels the same way.
2007-05-13 20:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! all people are insecure, even the ones you think are not,.....just talk to him and ,.....he might like that, maybe he wants to talk to you and he is shy about it,.....do it, and take it from there,.....ask him if he would like to have lunch with you, .....this is something you can do, and don't worry, even if he is not interested he will not think less of you,.....i have met many Lady's who i know like me, but the same feelings are not there, but i think of them in a better light when i know, take a chance
2007-05-13 20:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't really think you should ask people that being who YOU are is the best thing to do soo basicly be YOUSELF do what YOU would do!!! if he thinks your corny when you do that well that is his problem and he does not know what he is missing.
2007-05-13 20:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound kind of corny and weird, you should slap him.
2007-05-13 20:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him say hi......... And just carry on a conversation like you would with one of your gfs guys dont like it when they can tell you are shy
2007-05-13 20:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Riley Raine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking kind of loud to people near this 'guy' and he may become impressed that you can acually talk so loud being you are shy.
2007-05-13 20:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by colleenicole! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-13 20:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋