What are your views on this? And if it's O.K. for the woman to make the first move, is it O.K. all the time for her to make the first move?
2007-05-13 13:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by snezana9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I grew up girls never made the first move. Even though, personally, I would still be uncomfortable with it, I say go for it.
I am not sure I understand your 2nd question. If you mean always make the first move with the same man, than I say no. If he is not initiating contact and you are always doing it, he is not interested.
If you meet someone else in another way, sure make the first move if you feel comfortable.
2007-05-13 13:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make the first move because I would have to then accept if he rejected me. If you are a woman that can take rejection go for it! He might even like you also, but think about it, he he already wanted to make a move don't you think he would have? Men live for the chase.
2007-05-13 20:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, ever since women have taken the aggressive role; divorce is way up, also adultery and stress-related illnesses for women. Don't be a desperado. When a guy likes it, it's because he knows sex will soon follow.
2007-05-13 21:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the first move and proposed to my husband of 13 years. Worked for us, we are still quit happy.
2007-05-13 20:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either can. What would be wrong with her doing it? All the time? Is something wrong with him? If it is her with different men then she is just more aggressive which can be a turn on. If this is a couple then he needs to learn some confidence.
2007-05-13 21:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy likes you i dont think he would mind if you made the first move. Not at all.. especially if hes shy. I dont know why any guy would ever have a problem with that.
2007-05-13 20:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by broz215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is alright for the woman to do so but I still feel that ultimately, the man should pursue her, after she has done her part in makin' it known that she desires the attention of that man.
2007-05-13 20:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well last time i checked it,s 2007 not 1907 if a women,s interested in me i have no problem with her telling me she is if anything i would find it welcoming that she speak from her heart and is bold enofe to do so
2007-05-13 20:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she really like him i will make the frist move on him because his lookes will get me fire up for him
2007-05-13 20:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by brown sugar mommy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋