wat do you do when you feel alone?

Question

im pretty down a the moment and i feel so alone. im stressed over college and its really effecting me and i only have one person to talk to and thats my boyfriend, but he lives a long way away and i talk to him every day hes the most important thing in my life but talking to him about everything upsets me because i miss him and i feel like im a burden cos im down at the minute. my perents dont wanna know there not the talking kind and i have no friend, im not a recluse i used to have many friends but theyve all seemed to rift away and having there own lives
so im sat here thinking what do i do i just feel alone
id go stay with my boyfriend but i have to work
help ...

Answer 1

ALONE? Hate to disappoint you but their is no such thing as ALONE, because you always have YOURSELF! Well unless you do not like yourself and then you are really alone. Take the time to get to know YOU, what you like, dislike, try to look at yourself through other peoples eyes, figure out what your morals are and what they are based on. Keep going and eventually when you find the real YOU, promise you will never be ALONE again!

Answer 2

Create a yahoo 360 page, you'll soon have plenty of friends. you can write stuff in blogs, anything, how you're feeling funny things, put youtubes or whatever there.

You will get people writing you comments daily and help you when you need help.

I even received a beautiful boquet from one of my 360 friends in Texas, that cheered me up no end.

You can be 'yourself on there' or anyone you choose to be. So if you're quiet you can say things on 360 that you may never say in person.

Answer 3

Well All i can say is either listen 2 music,or get away from everything an be with ur bf,I feel alone aswell even though i have a son an bf but 2 me i still feel alone i just sit there with music on loud an cry an sometimes it makes me feel abit better.

Answer 4

I;m sorry to hear you feel this way..it must be tough, esp. that ur parents don't want to know...
talk 2 God, I know u r going 2 say i'm being religious or afanatic, but have you ever tried? we are all God's children, he cares about us, God wants us to treat Him like the bestest friend we ever had, imagine if there was a God, then silently (or aloud or in writing )tell Him everything you feel, just like you'd tell ur boyfriend...I have been in that situstion b4 & it took its toll on my boyfriend, believe me.... he is only human & can only take so much...that's why i'm suggesting this..
i don't mean we don't need others but our first & last resort should be God.
u don't have 2 do anything but simply believe that he cares about you & loves you no matter what...if we can't ask God for help, then who can we ask? he won't let you down, I promise...
luv & hugs xxChoo

Answer 5

I think u should try to become friends with people from your college. Maybe u should make a party or something and invite a lot of people you've met, and try talking w/ them and become friends.
Or just invite people u talk to in a class o have a study group and help each other.
Volunteering and helping's also fun, and shopping too! =]

Answer 6

sorry you are feeling so down and I know exactly what you are going through. If you would ever like to chat you can i.m me on a.i.m at chilledsession. Sometimes it helps having other people to talk to who are going through the same things. Good luck

Answer 7

Volunteer for something you enjoy. I love animals and volunteering makes me feel better so I walk dogs at the animal shelter. It makes myself and the animals feel better. You can also meet a lot of people with a similar interest.

Answer 8

most people on here probably feel quite alone so join the club :o) and have a hug from a stranger (((((( hug )))))

Answer 9

thats life...get used to it.