He has decided to stay with me because he doesn't want me to go through this alone. Except now because i'm not very close with my mother how do I tell her, and i don't wan her to go to the extreme and do something bad..even though I know I messed up. Yet I don't regret anything.
2007-05-13 11:52:35 · 14 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i'm 16, for those wondering
2007-05-15 09:59:50 · update #1
Well depends on how old you are. If you are an adult your mom has no business saying anything. If you aren't and you still live with her, you won't hear the end of it (probably I don't know your mom so I'm not sure). There might possibly be an issue with her accepting that and she might be a little aprehensive. You have to tell her sooner then later because if you tell her when she asks how far along you are you can't say 5 months tell her ASAP.
Your 15 1/2 its going to be very hard to tell your mom. Also you being 3 months you should have told her 3 weeks.
2007-05-13 11:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by blondiegurl4388 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared to tell her, then when you go to School or any place, let her a note . Explain her everything and tell her Sorry in advance. When you come back home maybe she already thought a lot about it, and I hope that she would be more support it. Tell her as soon as possible. Don't let pass more time. Good Luck.
2007-05-13 19:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Princesita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you are going to be a new mom. Let her know that you and your boyfriend have a plan. It may take her some time to adjust to becoming a grandmother if this is her first time but eventually, she'll have time to think about it and warm up. Congratulations and good luck!
2007-05-13 18:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you mean he will stay with you? just because you are pregnant???!!! if he is your boyfriend, shouldn't he want to stay with you whether or not you are preggers? just askin, but i think you should waiit a while to tell your mom, just till you are atleast at the end of the first trimester. then you know you will have a good chance in going full term. but uh what do you think she will do to you? i mean if she will take it badly, make sure you gather up a few ppl and then tell her! maybe she will have a calmer reaction
2007-05-13 18:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by jmayerlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's staying with you WHY now? Not because he loves you and wants to be with you forever and make his life around you?
Because he feels guilty?
You're gonna need your mama's support when the guy changes his mind and leaves you. I'd reccommend getting in her good grace as soon as possible...
2007-05-13 19:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? anyhow i would just ask her out to dinner and tell her and ask for her support. although she may be mad at first ultimatly she cant be to mad because there is a child involved and she needs to realize that(as long as you are over 18) that you have made your own choices and now have to live with them . May God bless you
2007-05-13 18:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Belgrademitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should stay with you. He will be helping support that child for 18 years. And you didn't use protection because ....
2007-05-13 18:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom is going to react bad no matter what but all in all know that she does love you and just have to tell her, there is not going to be an easy way just do it.
2007-05-13 18:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by momof2girls and now a boy :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down and tell her if ur that close she will understand it depends on hwo old u r thoughif ur like 14,15,16,17,or 18 i would think ur messed up
2007-05-13 18:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by andralynn147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really scared bring someone with you when you tell her or write her a letter with your big news. good luck
2007-05-13 18:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋