now i'm just so confused...he call sometimes but not a lot and he ask me if i miss him???
2007-05-13 11:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell his suspicious a*s that you didnt cheat on him!!
oh wait..he isnt worth it..suspicious guys only get controlling and possesive...i would just move on!!!
2007-05-13 11:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't cheat to your boyfriend and he keeps telling you that you do, it means that he don't trust you and what is the reason to stay with him without him trusting you? for me, relationship is base on trust. trusting one another. The only thing you can do is to prove to him that he is wrong. That you are being faithful to him. And if you still miss him so tell him the truth how you feel. What you and your boyfriend need to do is to sit down and discuss this issue so you will know what's the reason why he think you're cheating on him and I'm sure by doing that, you can find a way to prove to him that his assumption is wrong. I just hope that you and your boyfriend will resolve your problem and things will be back to where it was, trusting each other.
2007-05-13 19:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Erilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With his calls,it sounds as if he is trying to control the relationship and you. He wants you to come crawling for him to come back. It sounds to me if hes using the cheating excuse, when you werent, as a way to break up with you. If hes that insecure with you and wants to play little kid games then time has come for you to move on andfind someone better. So the next time he calls just tell him "hell no you dont miss the little boy in him and are looking for a real man" and then see what happens. I suspect your gut instinct is telling you exactly what I just did so just move on. Good luck
2007-05-13 18:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think a good relationship consists of trust. and if he doesn't trust you maybe its not meant to be. On the other hand you may be giving him signals ,that you don't know that your doing, but is making him think your cheating. Think, did you maybe miss some dates, or didn't call him for a while. You never know. I think that you should work it out.
2007-05-13 18:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by pateljill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's accusing you then he is the 1 cheating. As far as him calling you he's just trying to hang on to you untill he gets ready to come back if he ever does. I would go on with my life & next time he calls tell him you don't miss him. I know how hard it is when your heart is involved. Don't try to get him backhe's only going to get worse.
Hugs to you,
2007-05-13 18:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by texasstar1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big thing is he didn't believe in your honesty and that alone would make me not want him back. Any relationship is based on honesty and respect and if he doesn't trust you there really isn't a relationship. Move on and meet someone else other wise he will always question you and who needs that.....
2007-05-13 18:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you talk to him remind him that u didn't cheat. There's nothing worse than being accused of something you haven't done. He'll probably get pissed off that you keep mentioning it, but remind him what it must feel like for you.
2007-05-13 18:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by snezana9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he couldn't love you enough to trust you it's probably best he's gone. Can't live your life walking on eggshells.
2007-05-13 18:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go...if you didn't and he doesn't believe you then its his loss in the end
2007-05-13 18:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by lizdylan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋