My friend and I decided to separate. Things weren't working out between us. I used to be her dearest friend but things went bad and we've pratically never stopped fighting for a year. And in the end, we were trying to reconcile, but she just didn't want me back I guess, and quit trying. She thinks she needs the summer off and not think about this, and try to be friends with me next fall when school starts again. She wants to take a break since she's tired of me and wants to get the "looking forward to seeing me" feeling again. We both know we could be great friends and we miss the good times we've had before this rough year. So what should I do for the next few months to keep my mind off of this? Act like everything's fine without her?
2007-05-13 10:49:55 · 11 answers · asked by DarkNoel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find something new to occupy your time or go out and meet new people and new friends. Sometimes people grow up and when that happenns people tend to grow apart which is probably what is happening with you and your friend. People change and sometimes when we change we just don't seem compatible with a person that at one point in our lives might have been our dearest and closest friend. Give your friend her space like she has asked you to do. If by next year you two are still fighting and in the same situation then maybe it will be time for you to move on with your life and that will be fine.
2007-05-13 11:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by debbie_75052 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest fishing. While fishing you can take time to think and figure out what to do. I had a friend and and we were in that situation. I'm just going waited it out and kept doing things (like fishing) to keep my mind off it. Things eventually worked themselves out
2007-05-13 17:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ... for a while? Yeah, like... oh... your whole lifetime.
Don't waste time on people who play with your emotions and try to string you along. It's pointless, and they are cruel and don't really care about you, or they wouldn/'t do that crap.
This chick is a mess. Cut her out of your life like the malignant, cancerous tumor she is.
2007-05-13 17:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then forget her enough that she doesn't cross your mind everyday.
and try to find the source of the fighting, if it's easier to fix than losing a friend than tell her about ideas you may have to fix it.
if that doesn't work than
on with the new.
find a new friend to be "great friends" with and see if it works better.
hope i could help.
2007-05-13 17:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space and in the meantime open your circle to include new friends. make an effort to meet people you share interests with and have a good time. it is okay to keep your heart open to her if you want, but don't be surprised if you both move on. people outgrow their friends sometime. lifelong friendship is a nice idea but i think it isn't all too common. good luck.
2007-05-13 17:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's probably seeing someone else, she gave you this excuse of some months, to see if it is going to work out w/ this other dude, if it does, shell forget you, if it doesn't she has someone to back her up... I wouln't put up w/ that crap
2007-05-13 17:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by dostres 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She only wants in in the winter? Tell her to find someone else to keep her warm.
2007-05-13 17:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all need to pick up the pieces of the past and move on
2007-05-13 17:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it. She already has. Women don't care as much as you obviously do.
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2007-05-13 17:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by michael p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to move on.
The past, is the past.
2007-05-13 18:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋