My question is am I immature enough for this relationship to work?
2007-05-13 09:42:21 · 12 answers · asked by gotagetaweigh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And I don't care what any one says. No one ever emotional mature for their age.
2007-05-13 09:43:41 · update #1
Who said anything about sex? I was wondering if it is possible for a immature middle age man to have a relationship with a mature 16 year old. I mean she says she is so much more mature for age then people say she is. I believe her.
2007-05-13 09:48:28 · update #2
Come to think of it, they all say that.
2007-05-13 09:49:31 · update #3
Hhahah, who really thinks I am serious? You all do? That is sad. I am making a joke on how a lot of 16 years old girls on yahoo ask if she could date a man older then the non-minor mark. It is usaully followed by "well I am so much mature" comment. Thought it be funny to put it in the reverse.
2007-05-13 10:06:54 · update #4
Its not illegal in the UK.
Aside from that well - I wish u all the luck in the world. I bet hanging out with her and her friends is uncomfortable. But why not eh?
Each to thier own. Live and let live.
2007-05-13 09:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent I'd have your butt thrown in jail if it was my 16 year old daughter!Wait until she's 18,if you truly care for her,you'd wait.You could be charged with stat.rape,without even touching her,because she's a minor.Besides why mess with little girls?Find a woman closer to your age,not a child.I've been with an older man before and my family thought the was too old.His family thought that I was too young,but I wasn't 16 when we were together.It ended badly for various reasons,and none of them had to do with maturity.
2007-05-13 16:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen buddy, I'll be straight up with you. That is plain old sick. You could, technically be her dad. When you were 15, she was soiling her diapers. Give your head a shake and pick someone closer to your own age. If it helps, there is actually a rule you can follow to determine the youngest you can date without it being sick and twisted. Simply take your age and divide it by 2 and then add 7. So, by the information you provided (31divided by 2 is 15.5. Then add 7 and that is 22.5.). So, the youngest girl you could date is 22 and a half years old.
2007-05-13 17:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by stinkeenudz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are NOT talking about a romantic or sexual relationship (illegal, and the two of you will be ostricized by many, even if not arrested), and even if you ARE emotionally immature for your age, and she VERY mature--you are still 15 years apart in age. You come from different worlds, have different agendas, see the world differently, have different tastes in music, art, styles, politics, etc. She is used to mommy & daddy taking care of the basics, while you must have been out there on your own for a while...this changes you. These type of things put you in dirfferent worlds; more than you can see right now. In fact you are probably insisting to yourself as you read this, that your tastes are quite similiar to hers in all the areas listed above, and will end up finding how wrong you are as time goes by, as you find it so very hard to agree on anything. It is quite natural for someone your age to be attracted to someone in that age range--on a physical level--because things are just ripening, and are fresh, clean, unpolluted, not sagging, blimped out or otherwise showing signs of wear. This is why one mainly sees YOUNG women in girlie magazines--they are more pleasant to look at than grannies, but it really does not work out well to try and date them when they are no where near your own age, for the reasons stated above, that you probably do not think apply to your case.
Your best bet with gals this much younger than you, is to kiss 'em on the forehead, pat 'em on the butt, and send 'em on their way.
Then shop for a girlfriend within 5 years of your own age, to avoid hurting someone else, and yourself ultimately.
2007-05-13 17:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cannot imagine the emptiness in your life is such that you would go down a path like this. Some 16-years old girls have a gleam in heir eyes, a resilience, and a very fragile innocence that is best left alone. They tend also to be very honest and articulate in a funny sort of way. I would leave that be as well. When she is 18, she and you can do as you please, but for now, I would stay clear.
2007-05-13 16:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could go to jail. Don't do that to the teenage girl, she may act like she's interested but you have to be a mature adult and think about how that would effect her life, if you tried to have a relationship.
2007-05-13 16:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cara d. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ARE immature if you are thinking of a relationship with a 16 year old
but you will head to jail if you dont wait at least a year or two, dont try it
2007-05-13 17:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. Yes, you are! Isn't that against the law to have sex with them? I doubt this relationship will work!
2007-05-13 16:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by ;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go crying when child molestation charges pop up. That's kinda freaky, dude
2007-05-13 16:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Fahey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's illegal...period.
2007-05-13 16:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋