when i am getting a handjob a ejaculate very quick and then my ***** goes away and it is impossible for like 15 minutes or more to get another ***** and it is very embarressing to my gf
what is wrong?!
2007-05-13 07:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Wow, you're sooooo normal. Seriously, having someone jerk you off feels a lot better than if you where to do it yourself, this is why you ejaculate faster. After that, since it was a good orgasm, you don't want to have sex anymore. This is normal. Tell your girlfriend that there's nothing wrong with her, but tell her that if you want to last a little longer, she should jerk you off a little slower, or pause before you orgasm. Good luck.
2007-05-13 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
And why are you with this girl? Why is this even a problem with her? Why is this embarressing to her anyway?
Dude! this is so normal and there's no need to think twice about it. You should try getting someone else and fast. She needs to grow up and you should be man enough to move on you don't need anyone holding you back like that anyway.
May be you are coming too fast. Try to rleax some and take things slow. May be that's the problem and she doesn't want to say try this and see what happens. Relax and if the problem is indeed you coming too fast which is a concern to some. Then when you feel yourslef getting ready to get to the point of no return STOP all movement and tense up and when they feeling leaves which it will then proceed.
This is something a lot of couples do. Good Luck man and I wish you the best.
Stephanie
2007-05-14 07:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of that is completely normal. After a guy ejaculates, the penis goes soft for a period of time in order to recover. This is called "refractory time" and it's totally normal. If you are really turned on by your gf giving you a handjob, then yes, you will tend to come quickly. The second time around, after the 15 minutes refractory time, you will be able to last longer. If your girlfriend is "embarrassed" by this - hey, it's NORMAL. She shouldn't be embarrassed by what is NORMAL. Maybe you need a better girlfriend.
2007-05-13 17:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by happydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. If you ejaculate, it normally takes a recovery time of around 20 or 30 minutes to recover your erection and recock and reload for another round. If you can get back up and in service in 15, that's pretty damn good.
2007-05-13 12:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 15 minutes??? Geez, that's REALLY a good timeframe, buster!!! Takes me about 30-45 to an hour before I can go at it again.........Is your GF that inexperienced with men that she doesn't understand that we are OBVIOUSLY built anatomically differenlyt?? You might want to point out that as a "male limitation" and if she has a problem with that, put her on a weight bench and tell her to do a repetition of 10 reps with 260 lbs on the bar.......See? She can't do it.....maybe that will help it sink in that way.....Good luck......and Enjoy!!!
Christopher
2007-05-13 07:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, it is very normal for the penis to lose its hardness after you ejaculate. Second, why in the world is your girl friend embarrassed? She's causing the problem (if there is a problem) by masturbating you in the first place. If anyone should be embarrassed, it should be you, not her.
Chow!!
2007-05-13 08:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by No one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, it's called being a man. Reassure your girlfriend it is not her fault, it is the way men are built. Maybe you could use that time to focus on her orgasmic needs, that always helps my flaccidness... Write me through answers if you need help getting her to orgasm, I know a few tricks...
2007-05-13 07:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by beefire9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just needs a time out..you're fine
2007-05-13 09:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by tequila_mama1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the right girl
2007-05-13 07:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋