what is there to live for?

Question

like you people told me to do i told the guy i love that i liked him and now he wont even talk to me what do i do but kill myself i mean if not for love what is there to live for. i have this saying "love is the master key to the gates of happiness" so if there is no love what is there to live for if there is no love there is no happiness and a life without happines and love is meaningless right so what should i do kill myself or live though the pain that i have lived through so many times before and came so close to death i could smell it so what do i do and i wont talk to him or i might burst into tears so help me help me find a way inside the gates of happiness without the key help me keep my life ( oh yea he was my best friend)

Answer 1

My dear..........not one boyfriend is worth dying for.............If that was his response then you didn't want him anyway, since he didn't feel the same.....OR does he? Sometimes young men and boys act that way, when they don't know what to do. Just bide some time......maybe he wants to think it over.........
Try to bear in mind that he is not mentally as mature as you.. You know the 7 year maturity difference.
While you are waiting to see what he finally does........just go about your business and everytime you see a nice looking young man or boy, try to pictures yourself as "HIS" girlfriend...
Do it long enough and a big surprise is in store for you........I promise. You have got to give this a couple of months though.
BEST OF LUCK!
from an old granny

Answer 2

you know.. your saying doesn't just mean loving some guy or having some guy love you. No guy ever is worth killing yourself over.

To love others is a way to happiness but this includes others as well. Friends, family, showing kindness to strangers, pets, etc.

I believe we are put here to try and make some difference in the world.. it may be a small difference but it might mean everything to someone else.
I think of Angelina Jolie, who as a teen and an adult, had similar feelings. She really found herself when she got involved in charities, etc.

The world is huge and there are so many people out in it that have much worse problems than we do.. most of us have a home, have food, family ... perhaps you should look around and get involved in some way where you are to make a positive difference to others.

Answer 3

love doesn't mean love for a boy. that quote can refer to anything. when you love something or someone, it means you have a great passion for them. I think you really need to find something else to occupy your mind because really, finding a boyfriend is not the key to happiness. but doing things that make you happy certainly is key. If you tell yourself that finding love in a boy is the only thing that makes you happy, then you're digging yourself a deep hole. you really need to do some self re evaluation and figure out what's more important and what really will make you happy..

i'm sorry about your best friend. but if he really was your best friend, then he wouldn't stop talking just like that. maybe he felt awkward. it's not the end of the world. DON'T WORRY.

Answer 4

There is an old saying, "Tis better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all". Seek to love rather than to be loved. Do volunteer work, or get involved with family, friends. This is not the end of the world for you. Love will find you. If you try to end your life now, you don't know what wonderful things in your future you will be missing. Your future could hold great things for you and great love. Do not give up on yourself. Do not depend on others for your happiness. Most people are as happy as they make up their mind to be. Embrace your power.

Answer 5

I do feel love is the key for happiness, and something so good is not gained easily. When the person you are meant to be with finds you, it will be a lot easier and you won't have to deal with these games. It's harder to do, but sometimes you have to wait it out and let that person come to you. A lot of people put less effort into someone if they feel they will always be there, if they feel they don't have to try for you then they won't, unless they truly love you. You are worth their effort, and if they can't give that to you, then you deserve way better.

Answer 6

I don't mean to be snide, but killing yourself is never the answer... especially over a guy. Life will always have it's ups and downs. I've been in situations where I thought I would never recover, but I did. And I am truly happier than I ever thought possible.

Unfortunately, loves and friends will come and go. The only thing to do is to mourn the loss, them move forward.

If you have trouble coping, always seek counseling. They will help you to better understand things.

**additional note**

i knew a guy in high school - exteremly talented piano player. He probably could have gone very far. He could hear a song once - then play it perfectly. He killed himself over a girl. I felt very angry at him for wasting his life and his talent over a girl who didn't deserve him. This was probably 12 years ago. His death destroyed his mother's life and brought deep sorrow to the rest of his family. I am sure you have family and friends who care about you. This ONE GUY doesn't deserve you, nor do you deserve to throw away the talents that you may bring in to this world.

I felt anger and sadness that he thought that no one else cared about him. And I feel that he wasted his life. And i just wish he would have talked to someone first!

Answer 7

killing yourself is by no means a solution to your loneliness. it is just an easy way out which will be far hurt your family the most. you have family and eventually, when the time is right you will find love. perhaps your friend is just digesting what you told him and maybe he is scared of what you said. but i think that you are young that you should not be so overly concerned with love because it is usually when you are not looking for love that you actually find it. don't do anything that can hurt yourself, especially over a guy.

Answer 8

You do not state your age but I imagine that you are quite young. unrequited love is difficult to deal with but deal with it you must. You are not made a lesser person if you are not loved by a particular one, and I can assure you that there is a fellow out there for you, you will find him or he will find you; forget about killing yourself, life is a wonderful thing, a miraculous thing, enjoy each moment of it, when the right one shows up you will be very glad you waited. You are a sensitive person who knows the value of love, you are destined to make someone very happy.

Answer 9

Just learn to move on and keep your head up. You'll find another guy eventually, it might not be soon, but you will. It might be hard now, but it takes time to heal. You shouldn't be so pessimistic, think positive! Just live life to the fullest. You WILL find someone else to love that will love you back. Plus, your friends and family will always be there for you, think about how horrible they would they feel if you died.

Answer 10

its hurts knowing that someone you love don't love you back .. but why kill your self over something like that ... its really hard to get over someone .. but you will .. and right now your thinking yeah right .. but deep in side you half to be live there move to live for the just one person that don't really have know care it the world for you ... girl .. pull your self together .. he was your best friends and i so understand that and i know its hurts so much .. but hun.. don't think about kill your self.. that's stupid.. if you need help get it .. i have been though this to .. I went though a cuting stage .. i cuted my self to get reed of the pain .. but in the long run that just mad stuff worst ... so just think about the long run ... do you want a life or no life at all?