The unhappiness is primarilly as a result of having very different opinions about everything.
2007-05-13 07:20:18 · 38 answers · asked by Bantree 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
staying married would be much worse. Everyone wants to end up happy.
2007-05-18 12:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by sm_ie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having different opinions is a natural part of any relationship. We all grow up differently with diffent people and circumstances. If these differences of opinion lead to arguments then maybe see why the two of you can't keep it under control. Or if it only happens with certain things just agree to disagree and try to avoid talking about those things. If there is anything the two of you can do to change the dynamic of your marriage then you should try. It is hard to come back from a hurtful relationship, but if you two can remember why you came together in the first place and try to get back to that place you can change the outcome of your marriage. It won't be easy, my husband and I are struggling with this now, but on the days when we are laughing and being together, it makes it worth it. If you think the two of you can't change how you fight or think (with or w/o help from a counselor) then divorce should still be the last resort. Once you go down that road there is no going back. I wish you luck.
2007-05-13 07:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by superwmn315 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staying married in an unhappy relationship sucks more.
2007-05-17 08:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by stanley w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are the one asking I would guess that you are the one that's not happy so my answer would be to get a divorce.On the other hand your partner may have different thoughts about this.Divorce isn't always the answer and usually it doesn't solve the problems you have it just dumps the problems on someone elses shoulders.The person that gets dumped on still has to carry on with life with the burden of carrying the other persons baggage.Settle the conflict before getting a divorce so both of you will be able to move forward without problems.
2007-05-13 07:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont know never been divorced but, I was in a period wher I thought about it alot. A few years ago me and my wife went throguh a very rough spell. The term divorce came up quite a bit. After going through that our marriage is better now than it ever was. So bottom line is I think that most peopel if they want to can work through their problems it is a matter of honoring something they started and wanting to work it out.
2007-05-17 09:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jason J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-09 18:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by chiado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying married! But if you're unhappy in a marriage, won't a divorce make you potentially happy?
2007-05-13 07:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying unhappy leaves no room for a good future..why would anyone opt for that decision? Being single is NOT a bad thing, and in fact, can be wonderful. The happiest people I know are single.
2007-05-13 07:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying unhappy sucks more-getting divorced can be a very liberating feeling- many people have more piece of mind being alone than being with someone who doesn't appreciate and love them. You have to be your own best friend--no one else will treat you the way you DESERVE to be treated.
2007-05-13 07:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying in an unhappy relationship if there is no hope it will improve. While divorce is hard there is hope for a happier future to look forward to.
2007-05-13 07:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying married in an uhappy relationship, NO DOUBT. Getting divorced gives you a second chance to live your life in a better way.
2007-05-13 07:24:26 · answer #11 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋