i am having the bad habit of masturbation.i want to give it up but i often end up doing it after 5-10 days.Please suggest some way to give up masurbation.
2007-05-13 06:55:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
5 to 10 days is fine. 5-10 _per_ day is addiction and can be problematic. if you really have a problem with it and want to control your behavior, treat it as a sex addiction. I am still learning about it myself and can't give any sure-fire advice to solving the problem. But, unlike the rest, I can understand why you find it a problem and I hope you find a good solution or compromise.
2007-05-13 08:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Curtis76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't the fact that you end up masturbating after 5 or 10 days tell you something? It should tell you that your body needs to get rid of all that semen so that it can produce new, healthy sperm. Masturbation isn't a "bad habit" - it's simply a safe, natural way of relieving sexual tension & stress. There are no negative side effects associated with masturbation. In fact, recent medical rersearch suggests that young men who masturbate at least five times a week are less likely to develop prostate problems later. If you masturbate every 5-10 days, I wouldn't say that was excessive, but if you're really serious about stopping altogether, you will need a lot of willpower. Do bear in mind that if you stop masturbating completely, you are likely to experience wet dreams (nocturnal emissions). Good luck!
2007-05-13 14:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's the simple answer: don't. Don't worry about it at all. It's perfectly normal. And the more you try not to do it, the more you'll think about it, until you drive yourself nuts.
Masturbation is entirely normal, especially if you are a young man or a man who does not get to have sex very often. It's not a crime or a sin, and it doesn't do anything bad to your body, your mind, or any other part of you. That's scientifically proven.
As long as you aren't spending all your time masturbating (that is, doing it all day long and nothing else) and as long as you aren't masturbating in public on a subway train or out in the park where people can see you or something, you're OK.
You really shouldn't worry about it. The more you worry about it, the worse you will feel, and the more you will obsess about it. If you do it when you feel like it, say once a day, and then don't worry about it any more, that's OK. Just don't deny yourself. And please, don't feel GUILTY about it, because it's not a sin, or anything like that.
Like they say, 90% of all men masturbate. The other 10% are lying.
2007-05-14 00:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by happydog 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to do something like that, It's what we do as guys it's healthy for our body's to release through masturbation. you're doing just fine with moderation's of 5 to 10 days most guys do it every day.
I used to masturbate 5 to 6 times A DAY so you think you have a habit. What would you call mine??? lol anyway I never felt like it was a habit it just time consuming. Now i masturbate 2 times a day and i enjoy every moment...
I hope this helps... You can message back if you like...
2007-05-13 14:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Just me! 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is no need to give it up. It is okay, normal, and good for you. It has no bad side affects and it is not sinful. Since you are young you have a lot of testosterone in your system and that is going to cause you sexual tensions that need to be eased. Masturbate as needed as often as you feel the need. As you grow older that will lessen and when you get a partner you will stop masturbating altogether. Masturbation is something men will do their whole life it is one many normal sexual releases.
2007-05-13 15:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why, on God's green Earth would you want to STOP something that everybody does (check out the movie Kinsey) Masturbation is a natural process that is really quite necessary, or you wouldn't confess to "doing it" every 5 or 10 days. EVEN MEN AND WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIED PEOPLE OFTEN MASTURBATE. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it.........So, throw out all those old taboos about it and keep it up, so to speak!!! Enjoy!
Christopher
2007-05-13 14:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its not a bad habit......why on earth would you think that? no matter how many times you do it its not a BAD habit......but just go out to do suttn you like and get your mind off....i will warn you now its not easy gettin it off your mind....im a girl and cant get it off my mind half the time so good luck on that
2007-05-13 20:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a girl friend then you wont have 2 she can do it 4 u
2007-05-13 13:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you want to give it up? it is a perfectly normal thing to do and it is a gret way to relieve tension.
2007-05-13 13:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by scw4c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not bad for you. so i don't understand why you want to give it up.
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/MentalHealth/messages/32506.html
2007-05-13 13:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋