I want to have a threesome with two girls but my wife isn't into that type of thing...Is there anyone who can help me on this issue???
2007-05-13 06:18:29 · 13 answers · asked by spazboyv4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, I can help with that...
1) Respect your wife's feelings enough to drop it if she's not ready for this sort of thing. This means not bringing it up or pressuring her in any way...which includes walking around with your lip hanging out. It is of utmost importance that you give your wife the space she needs to explore this idea at her own pace. It's not impossible, but it will require much patience. A bit like coaxing a deer to come out of the woods and eat out of your hand. You won't get ANYWHERE by chasing it. She has to come to you.
2) Do NOT go out and try to engage in it without her to satisfy your curiosity. That is just plain cheating.
3) Educate yourself. Find out from other couples who have successfully experienced it, who can tell you about their experiences and why they succeeded where others have failed. This is very important! The website below is a fantastic resource, and the people there are experienced and friendly.
Good luck.
2007-05-13 16:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your wife doens't want to do it...then you either (A) need to figure out a compromise or (B) just drop the matter and bring it up a little llater when she might have had some time to consider it. But remeber that it is NEVER okay to go outside the marriage for ANYTHING.
xoxoxo
Hope you can get it sorted out.
2007-05-13 06:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Forever the Sickest Kim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife...don't do it..especially if she says no. Been there and done that with my first husband...I had control issues and was young and dumb...Sounded exciting at first, like living a fantasy...I thought it would help our marriage...Its like playing with fire (if you really love your wife)....
The other woman ended up living with us...and then pregnant. My husband fell in love with her and ended up hating me since I convinced him of having the 3some in the first place when he didn't want to...it all back fired on me and I got what I deserved...We got divorced....After a decade we are both remarried...and I am mature and sane...some fantasies are better left as such..
I know it sounds exciting..but it can be very dangerous...If she says no...split up or divorce first....don't convince her to change her mind...you'll regret it later..
Good luck with your choices...regardless you'll learn from your own mistakes...
2007-05-13 06:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is not into it, I would not force the issue. If you truly love her and want to have things work btw you, pressing it will not help. Otherwise, she may end up doing something that she is not comfortable w/ and that puts your marriage in jeopardy.
2007-05-13 06:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by mo_luv22 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
id love a threesome too but im not married, i wouldn't really care if it was two women or two men, i wouldn't do the man though, that's weird!
2007-05-13 06:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by daniel m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here and live with my hot wife and her hot sister alone, that makes my life bitter
2007-05-13 06:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by JOSECUBAS 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to piss off two women?
2007-05-13 06:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats nice honey.good luck with that,lol
2007-05-13 06:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get some morals and be true to your wife.
2007-05-13 06:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by nvrrong 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it before you get married, its the only way, if you do it now, that your married, trust me you will regret it
2007-05-13 06:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by burner377 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋