My life and all those in it are wonderfull, I am blessed I have everything I could ever need, accept I don't know why I always have to be the one to take the ball in my hands, I don't know why people always blame me for everything that goes wrong. Its not always my fault I don't need to be blamed. My dad blames me, my friends blame me, my family blames me. I am easy to understand If only people would try to understand me, and show me some respect once in a while...I am not pointing fingers at anyone in particular and I'm not talking about just one thing in specific, I'm talking about a lot of different things, and you know what I'm DONE, feeling sorry for myself, I'm DONE being a pushover, I'm DONE having to apologize to everyone and taking the blame for things that aren't always my fault! I have to get over this trial and the only way to do it is to put my trust in Yeshua, King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
2007-05-13 05:53:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I meant at least try to understand me a little bit.
2007-05-13 06:03:56 · update #1
You go dude! I know exactly how you feel. I am a scapegoat as well. I hate it. I don't like being blamed for what other people do. I am with you 100% of the way. I wish you luck. I understand your position and hope you win the battle and become the king of kings. You rock.
2007-05-13 06:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean about not being understood [hmph...]...and it can be very frustrating!! And it's horrible to get blamed for everything and stuff, especially if it isn't your fault anyway!! Hey but remember "If God be for us, who can be against us?" He's always there for us, even when things aren't going too well, at least not in our eyes...He's always got a plan, although we don't usually know until later......sometimes I wish He would just tell us but you know, He wants us to trust Him, without understanding why. Just keep praying, and draw ever closer to Yeshua, our best friend who has suffered way more than we do. It makes me feel really lame when I think about how much He suffered for us and how little we really suffer!! I feel like wow I'm being stupid!!!
Hey you have a great day ok dude :D :D
2007-05-13 22:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what i feel the same way. i the type of person that is nice and go out of my way to make others happy and when i make a mistake they all attack me. all im tryin to do is make them happy and i dont see why im always the target. like at home i clean up alll the time and when the kitchen is dirty i get blamed 4 it. like i never clean up but hte truth is i get tired of clening up 24/7. i get so tired of this all the time and i am sick and tried of being the one pused around all day everyday. they wonder why the way we are. again i feel you 100%. what we need 2 do is fight hard to get through this. Maybe things been not 2 good for you but God sees all and its just a matter of time before he makes things straight.
2007-05-13 13:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to anyone about your situation? I mean, a person with lived experience that can support you and guide you. Peers are not always, as you mentioned the best advisers. Maybe your priest or minister, they are used to listening.
Are you changing your religion? this is a big step in anyone's life. May God Bless you in this big step.
2007-05-13 13:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Adan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey sorry you have to be the one to go through all this when you are blameless. I know that the lord is the right answer. Don't give up hope. God is there with you when you need him and he knows all. Keep your chin up and stand up for your self in a christian way. God Bless.
2007-05-14 15:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got you when nobody understands you and your getting lamed for evrything you feel alone like your lve is jus terrible like it can't get any worse you just wan't people to listen to you
i got i 2 i'm kinda stuck but now i'm thinking go chatting whit people find someone ho understands you.
go mailing or something whit that person i hope it hilps
2014-03-21 15:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. It is impossible for someone to fully understand another person.
2007-05-13 12:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by hpotter4ever2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I pray Jesus will give you help with your life.
2007-05-13 22:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by robert p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you serious?? My family spoils me and shower me with gifts....!!!
2007-05-13 13:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by fencha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may your god bless you.
2007-05-13 12:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋