I'm happy for everyone who has that in their life,or who had it if she passed away.But does anyone else have a mother that treated them like crap?Or in my case just decided to leave me when I was 8,so I really can't say she treated me like crap,she just treated me like NOTHING.Sorry,just had to vent,I'm a little depressed.
2007-05-13 03:05:48 · 26 answers · asked by J♥R♥R 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm so sorry to hear that truly.... you must never think it was anything you did to make her leave you...you were only 8 and had no power or control...not even a choice.... but to answer your question no you are not the only one there are many in this world who's mothers treated them badly....i was lucky my mother was an angel...sadly she has passed away, but just because your mother didn't love you, or left you someone else will not saying it will replace the love of a mother, but you will be loved, and what you have to do is learn to love yourself, and find some kind of closure to your pain....i wish you peace.
2007-05-13 03:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it, you are not the only one, it's just that today is for honoring mothers. You can appreciate the fact that your mother left you rather than bring you up with whatever crap she is dealing with, and one day you will be a mom and give your children all that you should have had. My mother has not been great to me over the years but I got her flowers simply because she is my mother - regardless of how we get along. I think sometimes it's better to be left - some parents who stay just hurt their children far more than they could have if they had not stuck around.
2007-05-13 03:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lucky, my mother everyday of her life told me I was fat ugly and stupid. She constantly reminded me that no one would ever love me and that I should marry the first guy that came along, which I did to a terrible twenty abusive years with him. She also blamed me for everything awful in her life and constantly told me that she wished I wasn't her daughter. I'm the middle of three daughters, my two sisters never were treated like that. My mother had a stroke almost 7 years ago,
my family decided not to tell me about it so when I found out I asked my older sister why I wasn't told, she told me the family got together and decided it was none of my business, that i had no right to know, I was told this last summer. To this date I have made no contact with them. Its time this abusive behaviour stopped towards me, not just from her but the whole family.
2007-05-13 03:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by CLARABELLE 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No your not the only one. In my case I was never good enough for my mother. I was the oldest of 3 girls and was always in trouble, no matter what I did, how I did it, where I went, always wrong!!!! I have lost touch with both her and my father for 4 years. I called my mom last year to have a conversation to see if we can get back together as a whole family and her answer to me was, check with your sisters and see if it's okay with them. I said to myself it just isn't worth it at all.
2007-05-13 03:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone! I always have to hunt for a "humorous" card in between all the "youre the best mom ever" cards because it would be a lie. I shouldnt buy her sh*t! Dont be depressed about it, youve made it this far right?! When my mom walked in the bathroom & saw my bloody wrists when I was 12, she turned around & went back down to finish watching her soaps. Seriously. Id be dead if it wasnt for my brother. Its true what they say, what doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger!
2007-05-13 03:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by plainfieldcletusblue 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel & I'm sorry you had to feel that pain too. You are definitely not alone. My mother was horribly abusive when I was growing up and I practically had to raise myself & my 2 younger brothers. Now she hasn't spoken to me in about 15 years. I have learned to live with it, but I feel sad (mad really) that she doesn't even want to see her grandchildren. They are 15 and 18 now and they wouldn't even know her if they saw her on the street. I love my kids more that life itself & I do my best to make sure they know it...always!!!
2007-05-13 03:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My mom is too busy for me. She always has time for the other 3 kids but when I tell her I need to talk to her she just laughs about the subject or tells be to go away. What's worse is my dad's like that too.
2007-05-14 14:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by baby face. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have(in my youth) been in so many foster homes. I never really knew why. My Moma died of cancer later in my life. Whatever the reason,maybe ,She thought someone else could do a better job. My heart goes out to you. You and I know the meaning of bittersweet love.....susan m
2007-05-13 03:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
nah. my mothers not super special. i always feel like today is a lie. I never buy the "you were the best mother a daughter could ever ask for" cards. not true. she could have been a lot more.
2007-05-13 03:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a wonderful mother....but I feel the same way you do when Father's day rolls around. Sorry.
2007-05-13 03:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kat A. Tonic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋