I have lusted after guys for as long as I can remember. And until college, when I had a drunken making out session with another girl, the thought of hooking up with a girl never even crossed my mind.
Yesterday I watched the movie "But I'm A Cheerleader" which featured plenty of girl-on-girl kissing. I thought it was really hot, and after the movie I felt a strong desire to kiss either the guy I like or a cute girl.
I have no desire to be in a long-term relationship with a woman. But, I do enjoy the idea of "hooking up" (physically and emotionally) with another female. My ultimate preference though is definitely still for men.
Does that make me bisexual, or merely bi-curious?
2007-05-13 02:32:31 · 15 answers · asked by glow 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
bi-curious is what it's called
2007-05-13 02:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Larry m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup, you're bicurious (if we must use labels). And if you try it - you're most likely gonna LOVE it! Ya might like guys better now, but that all might change if ya get close with the right girl. There's always a chance that a girl will steal your heart away some day. Don't listen to religious nuts - they think you can "choose" your feelings, and they don't care about what you want. And not all women are meant for men. I know I was born a lesbian and I am just not meant to be with men. The best way to know if you're straight, bi or gay is to experience it. You'll discover what is most comfortable to YOU.
2007-05-13 03:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your creative term, "bi-curious." But to me, you are a bisexual. Or at least you can be considered so by the fact that you do not have a big guilt trip or shame over the "drunken making out session" and don't mind talking about it in public.
This IS public, you know.
2007-05-13 02:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Uh, there are idiots on YA, there's no reason to assume they know what they're talking about. ???? If a "girl" says SHE's bisexual, then that may well be true. How would she know about EVERY ONE of the THREE and a HALF BILLION other "girls"? No, most women aren't sexually attracted to other women.
2016-05-17 06:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Boxes" such as lesbian, gay, homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual are merely convenient ways to classify your sexual orientation. In fact, sexual orientation is fluid, and even within bisexuality, there are many different types.
One bisexual, for example, might fancy both men and women in the same way, but another bisexual might like one gender for sex and the other for love. Some bisexuals go through spells of liking one gender, then a spell of liking the other.
Don't worry about your sexuality.
If you want to hook up with a woman, hook up with a woman. Be honest about why you want to hook up and see how things go.
For some people, these thoughts are just in their mind and they don't like them in real-life, but for others, it makes you feel better.
Go and explore, and enjoy it!
2007-05-13 02:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Nick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just curious...maybe if you try and experiment with a girl it'll make you realise weather you are bisexual or curious but every girl thinks like that at one stage
2007-05-13 02:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by kkk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that God made the woman for the man and anything outside that is a sin against God.I hope you come to know the Lord Jesus Christ as your savior and then God could bless you with a christian husband,but first you must grow in the Lord.
2007-05-13 02:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its bi-curious. its normal to have that feeling in some people but it'll fade away as you get older. my advice is spend a little more time with your bf and find out whether you still think about cute girls when you're with him. if that thought doesnt cross your mind, you're normal, i guess :)
2007-05-13 02:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by takuya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats exactly the way I am. I don't ever want to date a girl, but I dont mind "hookin-up" with one. I just consider it bi-curious
2007-05-13 11:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? You like sex with women...you have gone beyond curious...
2007-05-13 02:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋