what do u women think?

Question

my friends dad took me to a strip club for the first time. He spent fat money on me. He paid $340 on me for vip lapdances. 20 for two songs. Thats alot of lapdances. Thats a lot of beautiful women. I felt really good and was lost in ecstasy for hours. I have this feeling Ill have to fight this from becoming an obsession. On the other side, do some women have this "strip club" problem?What do you women think?

Answer 1

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with strip clubs. One of the first times I went to a strip club I was taken by a friend of mine who's also a woman and she enjoyed it. I personally am not a big fan of them, but not because I find them offensive; rather I just don't find them all that entertaining.

If you enjoy going to them, and if when you go there you're not acting foolishly and being disrespectful to the women who work there, I think it's fine.

As far as the money thing, if you feel you can handle going to the strip club a lot without it really getting in the way of you living your normal life, go right ahead. It's when it prevents you from doing what you have to do and living a normal life that it becomes something you may wanna look at.

Answer 2

first of all, to Clcalifornia,

I'm afraid we exotic dancers are quite familiar with your type. Frequently women come into strip clubs, just to have a negative attitude towards the dancers. They sit in the corner (or if they're really nasty, near the stage) glare at the girls, and make nasty comments about their appearance. Quite frankly, they're not ever anything so special as to be criticizing other women. Not too say they're ugly, but not so great as to be above some obvious imperfection themselves. In my experience, most of the women who have a problem with strip clubs don't have a lot of intelligent things to say about feminist theory. They mainly just spew hatred with words like "skank" or physical criticisms of the women they've seen in there. I think they're really just pissed to see women capitalizing on their looks and sexuality. They see women wielding their sexuality and exhibiting a certain sense of control with it, and it can make them torn. They shouldn't be upset, it's not a job for everyone, and it's not a criticism if it's not for you. Women who are really secure in themselves don't have a problem with what other women do with their bodies. Women who are really secure can either stay out of the club and leave well enough alone, or can go and have a good time, and be polite and respect others for putting themselves out there and opening themselves up to criticism and a wealth of issues that a looks obsessed culture has. They certainly don't come home and bad mouth or condescend.

But to address the issue at hand, yeah, you don't want this to become an obsession. It can be a fun fantasy escape for awhile, on occasion. But you don't want to become one of those guys who's there multiple times a week, blowing all his disposable income. Spending too much time in the club means less time socializing, and thereby severely lessens your chance of meeting a woman you can have a real relationship with. Quite frankly, the girls don't care about you that much. That's not too say they don't like you as a person or a conversationalist, they very well might. And they're not bad people. But they are there to make money, and if you went to work every day not knowing if you'd take home $30 or $300, your focus would be on the money. Their job is to make sure you enjoy yourself, have good company, and go home with a smile on your face. They may enjoy it, but it's still a job. You're not going to make lasting friendships here. So don't waste your life in the club. Go once in awhile if you want, but give yourself a reality check every once in awhile, and remember this is fantasy and fun, not substance.

Answer 3

sounds like fun, i take my guy every year for his birthday,the girls and i have a great time teasing him and i get a really fun time when we get home,i enjoy going to male strippers but most of the women there are so nuts, i don't go very often. all i can say about the obsession part though is don't let it take control over u, the girls just want ur money, they don't want u. lol

Answer 4

It could becomea complusion and addiction. But, think about it. How impersonal is this? How sleezie are these women?
Isn't a real woman in your real bed with you both naked better than the strip club.

Strip clubs are for guys who can't cut it in their own homes.

I have been to one. And gosh those girls looked like they had AIDS. It was pathetic. They looked like children made up to be women. I wondered what happened in their lives that brought them to this place where it is ok to do this sort of job?

You have had your first time visit. leave it that, or you might end up one of those lonely old farts who has nothing more to do with their time and money than to spend their lives at this sleezy place.

Answer 5

find you a good beautiful woman.....as in a girlfriend...who will be more than willing to dance like a stripper for you and fulfill way more fantasies then the women at the strip club

Answer 6

Trust me, women are not taken advantage of in strip clubs: men are.

You're friend's an idiot for blowing so much money:

If you're hungry, you don't pay money to watch someone else cook a steak, do you?

Answer 7

If you want to go and throw your money at some girl who is "dancing her way through college" and get nothing more than a look at her bare breasts and go home with blue b*** then have at it, more power to her.... the only problem is when you have a woman who has a problem with it and you ignore her wishes and go anyway. Otherwise, get broke throwing your money at some girl who wants nothing more from you than your money and uses her hot body to get it. Is that much different from what most men think dating is anyway?

Answer 8

i think that going once in a while is fine and i guessfun..but if you start to cash out on them and go very often..then it turns to a problem...

Answer 9

Your friends dad sounds pretty cool.