I have been with my wife for 8 years and now she would rather run around party and have intercourse with every man that she could get her hands on. I dont want her back, but i need a way to let her go. She is the love of my life and it is hard. Is their LOVE after LOVE????
2007-05-11 18:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by chriswh90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, Chris there truly is!
2007-05-11 18:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel. Believe me ...I loved and lost. My love and Marriage was 25 years, he found someone else. The awful hurt does go away...you get back to a point where you see colors again, if you know what I mean, I'm sure you do, at the moment you don't even feel alive...that will get better. I don't know if you will ever stop the love that is deep inside....but you can go on and live a life. You are young and life has a lot to offer. Go on and try , try , try.....God bless..and good Luck...
2007-05-12 01:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by gigigal906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what my wife of 15 years did the same to me 6 months ago. You know what I'm starting to think???? If all these women are leaving there husbands and looking for something different then I'm going to go out there and look myself. My ex can kiss my a** and I hope in 6 months you think the same way! She did NOT deserve you so go get some strange but only after 6 months!
2007-05-12 01:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by tyler d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're going through a rough time right now. But remember that it's just a matter of time and everything will be healed. And its not your loss at all its hers. She will wake up one day wishing she never let you go. And you will find someone new eventually and you will be happy again. Happier than you were with her.
Its never too late to love again. Just wait for a while and you`ll be okay again. Trust me. Dont lose hope.
2007-05-12 01:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you dwell on it. Whose fault it is and so forth?
If you have a job, then focus on it. If you have children, focus on being a loving father. If man/woman love is to happen to you again, you get it because you are a good man and not because you also run around finding party girls.
Use your head and put the pains and hurt in compartments. Life goes on, love or no love.
2007-05-12 01:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Eight years is a long time to throw away. The good news is that once your wife realizes what a little hussy she has become it will be to late and she will have to live with her choices. Until then continue to live your life, making the right choices. Good things come to those that do the right thing!
2007-05-12 01:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Chris, Truly sorry about what has happen in your life. Yes there is love after love. In time you will heal and you will want companionship with a good woman you can trust. Don't give-up it will take time but you will be okay.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-05-12 01:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to allow yourself to go through the stages of grief, because you are experiencing a loss here, the loss of your marriage. So let yourself do it, go through the shock, denial, anger (yep--that one too), bargaining (where you promise to be a better person, if...), depression, and then finally you reach acceptance. At that point, you WILL be able to love someone again, you'll be ready for it. Best of luck to you.
2007-05-12 01:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please Dont create any more like her,She cant be with one man any more,She needs many to satisfy her,She has gone too far, Just forget about her, Find a new life partner, Its possible again you can fall in love with your new wife!!!
2007-05-12 01:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it very normal to feel as you do, regardless of what went down
she was someone that you loved. . but as time goes on your
heart will heal. just take one day at a time. it will get better
with time.the hurt will eventually go away and then you will
see that the sun does shine., i know now it feel like there
nothing but darkness.but it will get better. good luck to you.
2007-05-12 01:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can fall in love with your soulmate this time, because the first one wasnt her or it wouldnt have turned out the way it , so get up dust yourself off and start making that journey that will lead you to your true love,
2007-05-12 01:13:36 · answer #11 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋