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2007-05-11 17:03:42 · 19 answers · asked by diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I were you I would do everything in my power to keep her away from that situation, don't hang out in the house go out and stay occupied.
If it becomes a serious concern, I would tell an adult that you can trust, maybe an intervention is necessary
2007-05-11 17:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by neon49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is an older girl and there is no reason her dad should be hitting her...i mean no one should get hit.She should tell someone if she is being hurt by him in anyway.I think disipline shouldnt have to do with hitting.Have her get some other advice she shouldnt have to deal with it.
2007-05-12 00:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Brianna M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell her you are there for her. if you ask her if she wants you to tell someone else, and she says no, dont, unless you feel this is something that is worth losing her over. (i did that once and to me it was worth losing friendship over, except it wasnt' worth losing that trust the friend had) so you have two choices, be there for her and if she doesnt want extra help, you can either continue it just being you and her or go beyond what she wants and help out because you care but know that it might ruin the friendship.
2007-05-12 00:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by okey dokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have been in your friends shoes! you need to tell someone who can be trusted to assist in getting your friend to a safe place. even if you lose her as a friend it is better than her being seriously injured or to have her lose her life! that is the best thing you can do for her! dont let her go through the pain alone, let her know you are there for her! good luck
2007-05-12 00:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by styna85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That her dad may need help and if it is possible to try to call you close relative or your mom and stay with them until he gets counseling. Also to pray for him. believe me it is hard to pray or do good to thos who hurt you, but it is a healing process in your life. Stand fast and hang in there I am here for you. Peace.
2007-05-12 00:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sylvia F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to encourage her to seek help from a qualified adult. A teacher, aunt, your parents, school counselor, priest, someone.
Abuse only gets worse, never better. One day she could be REALLY hurt. But the psychological hurt is FAR worse and she needs help to deal with that.
Please do what you can for her -- but realize, ultimately it is HER problem and you aren't responsible for her choices.
Good luck.
2007-05-12 00:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let us know more...... Does he hurt her , does she have marks on her from the hits. How old is she? Calling the police on him is one answer if she has marks from his hits. Helth and social services will check him out to see if she should be removed from the home.
2007-05-12 00:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by gigigal906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lay low for a while ( don't go to her house! )
if it gets to the point where shes coming to school with bruises and all that but you don't want to tell anyone make her feel better dint embarrass her.
2007-05-12 00:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ana S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her to call the police. It don't matter if she did something wrong or not. that is child abuse and he shouldn't lay a hand on her for any reason.
2007-05-12 00:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by flowerwife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like tell the dad not to hit her. n if he still does tell him if u can take her/him to ur house to live with. message me bout this i want know how it works out.
2007-05-12 00:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by nemo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋