2007-05-11 16:38:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
When you are mature enough to understand the consequences of it and when you find that one person that you are really in love with and want to give yourself to on every level, physical and emotional.
2007-05-11 16:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by CeeCee 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific "right" age to lose your virginity, honey. It's all a matter of when you're ready to make that decision. However, I wouldn't recommend losing your virginity until after the age of 18. It's just a smarter decision than to lose it when you're still considered a child. Having sex is a very big responsibility and comes with MANY risks. If you start having sex too young, you'll get labels that will stick with you all throughout your adult life. Plus, you have to consider that you might get pregnant or catch an STD, no matter how careful you are. You also have to remember that the majority of guys will lie to you about how many people they've slept with and they aren't always the most careful people when it comes to sex. And, NEVER, NEVER, believe a guy when he says that he can pull out before it's too late! That's bull and you'd be a fool for thinking it's true. In this day and age, it's much better to wait until YOU are fully ready to accept the responsibility of having sex. Don't let ANYONE pressure you into making a decision that you aren't comfortable or secure in making. I wish you luck and hope you'll make the right decision for YOU.
2007-05-15 21:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any right age. Definitely the wrong age to be doing is when your under age. Here in the UK the minimum age is 16, But I think it should be pushed up 18. There is no right age it when you feel right. Never let anyone pressure you, don't let anyone force you if your not ready, don't feel pressured just because all your friends claimed to have done it doesn't mean you have to and don't let a b/f pressure you. If your not ready don't do it. The right time would be when you feel ready, when you are with someone who is the right person, you are comfortable with them, etc. Some people wait until marriage before having sex some have sex in relationships. Make sure when having sex you are sensible and wear protection, to prevent pregnancy and catching STD's.
2007-05-11 23:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are old enough to know how to spell "lose". That would be my guess. I lost mine at 15 and regret doing that...not who I did it with...but that I was so young. I didn't "feel" young, but now that I look back...I was just a kid. After you have sex once, the rest of the times will seem like no big deal...therefore encouraging more sex with multiple partners. Stick it out as long as possible. And to throw an age out there....anything 17 and younger keep yourself a virgin.
2007-05-11 23:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no right age or wrong age.
But if the answer to any of the following questions, and then some is no, it's too early. These questions apply to both yourself and to any potential partner.
Do you know how a man's body works? Do you know how a woman's body works? Do each of you know specifically how your own body works (if you don't, you can't teach a partner how to pleasure you)? Are you both emotionally and financially capable of raising a child on your own, with absolutely no help? Are you both emotionally and financially capable of raising a child together, with no outside help?
I'm adding a long list of links to help you and any potential partner figure out all of this. Unless and until the answers to all of these questions are an absolute yes, you should abstain from any risky sexual behaviour.
2007-05-11 23:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me the right age to loose ones virginity is right after marriage only.
2007-05-11 23:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by sheila l 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe not age but the right time. for me it will beafter you graduate your college then you have work whiich makes you ready just in case you get pregnant. protection is not 100% sure.so it's better to do it when you are financially, emotionally and physically ready for marriage and family. it won'tmake you feel any regrets and you will also be involved in a guy mature enough who could support you
2007-05-11 23:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by zhanlili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is no "right" age. It is best to wait until you are married. however if you find someone special in your life and you are willing to live with the fact that he took your virginity then wait until you are 18. by then he should be 18 or older and there would not be any legal issues. Remember loseing your virginity will be painful so it is best to do it with a caring person.
2007-05-11 23:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by goddessjessie2007 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Just think how young girls are stolen as sex slaves to be raped 100 times a day. Or how many sexually transmitted diseases there are. Keep your virginity as if it is the greatest treasure in the world and only your soul mate will one day openly recieve. Always remember sex is initially for reproduction and you could get pregnant. Are you financially, physically, mentally, etc. to be in the care of baby?
2007-05-11 23:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by ali_marie1x1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least 18.
Anyone younger is a child and too young and not ready for the adult challenges of sex.
2007-05-12 00:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋