***? It seems after mine gets his, I'm ready for mine..but we have to 'wait'. He does follow through but like a few hours later at the earliest..I know, I know, I should get mine before giving his, but in bodily function kind of wonder...can I reasonably ask to get my turn at least within the hour??
2007-05-11 14:54:55 · 12 answers · asked by LoveSlave 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Ok, Nathan S..call me in 2 days and don't have sex yet?! j/k...So then how long when you're in the mid 30s?
2007-05-11 15:10:49 · update #1
It really depends on the man and his mood. My husband and I have done it four times a day, but that's rarely. More often its just once or (occasionally) twice. Then it was morning and afternoon, or night. Mind you we're in our forties now so maybe it doesn't apply to your situation. Certainly when we were younger the second response time was a bit faster, but still well over an hour.
Tell your man that there's nothing wrong with the silver medal - get him to come second some times.
2007-05-11 15:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I haven't had sex in a couple days, I can usually go twice within an hour. But every guy is different. Some are ready five minutes later, some need to wait till the next day. I think the time increases with age. 15 years ago, I was definitely in the 10 minute bracket. But I'll tell you, at least for me, it's not something I can change. It's just the way I am. I suspect it's that way with most men.
2007-05-11 22:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This works for me.... After I am done... I have a sleep... lol..
No seriously.. to keep him interested... introduce some toys. We have a lot of fun with toys and while I am in recovery mode... my darling is going lunar with a vibrating dildo that I have in my hand (my hand isn't tired obviously) .... and all the excitement turns me on... and if she can hang on for a few minutes... I am back physically into the action tag teaming said vibrating accomplice stroke for stroke (too much info I know). He is a lil bigger than me and far more energetic..... but doesn't make me jealous. (actually we use three different sorts... the jelly dongs feel great apparently.... but the firm simple plastic ones vibrate more.. and the japanese pearl ones are apparently something different... you have to choose the right tool for the job in hand... men are supposed to be good at that).
2007-05-11 23:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the age and health of the man. These days many men do not take care of themselves. In good health a man in his 30's has a refractory time of about 1 hour max. There will be variation. Alcohol consumption also impedes sexual performance. Have a nice day.
2007-05-16 23:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by firestarter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old your man is.
At 20 i could go 3 times in an hour.
At 35 i could go 9 times in 2 nights.
At 60 i can still do a 'double', but give me an hour between, and not every night.
Actually, the 'down' time is useful, as the mouth, tongue, fingers and so on can keep going indefinitely!
I find it very exciting to pleasure my partner!
2007-05-16 21:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Andy D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can only answer for myself...if I have not had sex for a while, and I am extremely excited, I can get it up within a few minutes, and I am fifty two yrs old. I don't know how old your partner is, but unless he is in his seventies, he should be able to perform for you sooner then that. As for giving you pleasure, I believe that cunnilingus is the answer to all problems with female orgasm. Have him learn this art and perfect it and you will be happy.
2007-05-18 21:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by Joel H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for asking this question and men thanks for answering.
When I was in my twenties , my husband and I were able to have sex at least a few times a night.
The second spouse while I we were both in our thirties not often at all -not even in weeks and then when I got in my forties barely. The last year down to zero and I had only been with my two spouses and knew that was not normal.
Thanks again for asking this question and thanks for the honest answers from the different age categories so that I know I was not wrong!
2007-05-18 23:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but men who can only have sex once a day or every few hours are sexualy incompetant in my opinion. Your penis isnt attached and controlled like a toy, its part of you not external, you should feel it is part of you if you understand me and you will grow sensitivity in it aswell the rest of your body and be able to get back up 5-10 minutes after sex and continue all day :)
2007-05-18 00:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by mecicoplajjer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Takes me a few minutes for the second time. 5-10 minutes for the third time. About 15 minutes for the fourth time. In between to pass the time, I'll give my partner passionate licks and kisses between her legs to keep her hot and in the mood.
2007-05-11 22:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to raise the dead is with a b l o w j o b, try it you'll see !!!
2007-05-11 23:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋