I'm getting bored now and must try a few things in life. Women have beautiful bodies and I want to try sharing mine with one. - Laugh - this is a serious question you know....hic... should I go for it or not?
2007-05-11 14:24:24 · 22 answers · asked by 2dog 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey guys, I just want to give it a try that's all. I'm not some silly teenager you know !! I love your answers though...thanks
2007-05-11 14:58:20 · update #1
Hey... I'm not hurt by a man, I just want to experience sharing my body with a woman. I have eyes, I can see beauty, I know when a woman is sexy, gorgeous whatever, I want to enjoy. I'm not off men, I'm not in a bad relationship. I just want the experience.
2007-05-11 15:16:09 · update #2
tank28 - wake up babes.
2007-05-11 15:39:19 · update #3
Hi there dog2, There is a paper called the Pink Paper, it is free from most gay night clubs and bars, or you can see it on line. Or you can buy Diva Magazine from some newsagents....WH Smiths sell it.
You can try the dating pages.
Good luck :o)
Qwerty seems to like you....email her.
2007-05-11 17:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few ideas, you can try Match.com, they have gay matches, not only straight matches. I know you aren't looking for a relationship, but the woman doesn't have to know, it's a safe way to start as you get to know the person before you do anything. So, it's safe. There are other places that have listings for woman wants to meet woman. I live in NY, but don't know where you are so can't give you a help with that.
The other is to try a gay bar. You never know who you will meet there. It's good for meeting men, so why not women.
Should you go for it, why not, if it's something you want to try, you have nothing to lose to give it a try. If you find you don't want to go thru with it you can always stop. But, I think you should give it a try. It was always something I thought about when I was younger, and did get as far as a foursome, but now, older and married, and did most of what I wanted before I settled down. I think you need to do what you want to do before it's too late.
2007-05-11 19:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're bored with whatever you have going on in your life, doesn't mean you woke up one morning and decided to like girls... Maybe it's an excuse for the fact that you have all along and put it aside. No offense, cuz this could be done subconciously.
If you have any gay or bi friends, I would definitely talk to them about it, and expirement that way. If you don't, maybe join a group, i know most cities have groups for gay/lesbian/tran/question youth or adults and meet friends that way. My only concern, especially if you're younger, and depending on your location and your views on people talking about you... brinding it up with even straight friends you completely trust: not everyone is accepting or understanding of even expirementing with that lifestyle. If you ever need someone to talk to hit me up on myspace www.myspace.com/butterflikzd
2007-05-11 14:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by butterflikzd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My view on sexuality is not to label yourself.
If you meet someone, like, love and are attracted to them, then their should be no limit.
How to start.....this can be a little difficult. You know where to go to meet boys, but meeting girls can be a little difficult. Some lesbians feel fairly negatively to bisexuals for a range of reasons. Partly because you want to play with girls, but then you will marry a guy. So be aware of people's feelings on this matter.
Firstly, find out about the gay and lesbian hangouts in your city. Go out, talk to people. They are often friendly and open. Go and make friends, rather than try to get laid. You will find the gay, lesbian and bisexual community is often happy to talk to you and introduce you to these ideas.
My friend, who felt the same way as you, went (with my help) around to a number of gay and lesbian venues around Sydney, meeting and talking to people. She didn't meet a girl friend this way, but it was a lot of fun. This "community" is full of open friendly people, many who are not gay, lesbian or bisexual.
The biggest problem for many bisexual girls, is they are not attracted to the strong, short haired lesbian look. So finding the right lover can be hard. But like finding a boyfriend, you look, and you will find.
Good luck.
2007-05-11 14:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by flingebunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, nothing wrong with curiosity and variety is the spice of life. Women have much more to offer anyway.
2007-05-11 14:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are at least 18,then yes. Be safe,try some online dating sites,and have fun. Tip,don't try threesomes,have one on one relations to be able to concentrate on what YOU want,not what anyone else wants.
2007-05-11 14:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your lover is just bad. But if you are interested in woman, go for it.
2007-05-11 14:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why ? Has a man hurt you or are you really into women?
2007-05-11 14:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hic! yeah sure go for it, you got webcam? Is that whats meant by distance learning?
2007-05-11 14:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by Wildman 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
join a social group
2007-05-11 14:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by any1one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋