She raised me and loved me unconditionally and now she is gone. Does the missing of someone you love ever go away? Or do you just cry forever.
2007-05-11 14:21:29 · 4 answers · asked by brainsandcute2 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Aww bless ya luv. I dearly love and miss my Grand mother too. I also lost my mom, brother and 15 year old son one after another one year. Each of them effected me differently and each I grieve for differently. My Grandmother had such a good attitude about death and for her it was a releaf from suffering but she was my best and wisest friend. Sometimes it gets easier with time and then out of the blue the sadness comes rushing back. It's the missing them so and the sharing with them. With my son for a long time I couldn't bare to even look at a picture for a long time it would just overwhelm me. Light a candle and look at her picture and talk to her . I believe she can still hear you. She will always be a part of you. I sware I can still hear my Grandmother's voice and she says things to me exactly as I would expect her to say. I don't think our loved ones ever die, just their bodies. It would probably make her sad to see you so sad. Hold her dear sweetheart you've been blessed to have had such a wonderful Grandmother. I'll light a candle for you luv. For comfort and an ease from the sarrow. Time will ease the intensity and how much how often it hurts...but I think we always miss those we love .....
2007-05-11 14:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Motherchi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hurt ( Or loss) Never goes away. It lessens with time, but it is a hurt that never heals. A suggestion to lessen the hurt. try doing something that will make you feel better such as tying a small note (to the person you miss), to a helium balloon and let it be carried away to the sky. I was always told the dead can hear your thoughts. Perhaps your grandmother is watching over you. She may even be your guardian angel. ( You never know)
2007-05-11 14:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Fl1959 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't cry forever. I don't think you will ever forget your grandmother, and I think you will always love her. You can stop grieving at some point, but you might not be ready yet to stop. Loosing someone isn't easy, but don't give up hope. I think your grandmother would want you to celebrate her life, and not dwell on her death. I'm sorry for your loss, and have a nice weekend. God bless.
2007-05-11 14:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One way to not miss an elderly person is to care for them when they have dementia. It really takes the sting out of the love and missing. I know.
2007-05-11 14:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋