he says he wants me but needs the other girl cause she got a car and money. but he is still around me all the time and we are still having sex
2007-05-11 12:59:22 · 10 answers · asked by Velma W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah that's pretty creepy. Let him get the car, money and SEX from her.
Get the WELCOME mat off your back.
2007-05-11 13:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a real loser. He is using you both to get what he wants. You have to think to yourself and say, "what am I getting out of this and is this is worth it?" How does that make you feel that all he wants is sex from you and nothing else. Is this the kind of relationship you want? Do you think you are not worth anything more? Honey, you deserve much more in a relationship than sex. When that runs out, what is left. I hope you will thing about what you are doing to yourself. You need a person to be with you all the time not only half. Good luck.
2007-05-11 20:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by beaddiva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last sentence gives you the answer to why he is still around.
He can get money and a car from the other girl and some booty from you.
What reason does he have to make a change in his behaviour?
By all means, get rid of that dog!
2007-05-11 20:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Aric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops! As "Dear Abbey" would say, sounds as though he wants you for one thing only. You don't need a solid commitment, but if is not ready to be your "steady" and stay away from the other girl, dump him. That is not only not cool, but a strain on any relationship.
Find someone else; you deserve better.
2007-05-11 20:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, see, he just wants a girl for the car and money, he just wants you for him to have sex with, so I say..............
DUMP THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!
Why would you still go out with someone like that, that treats you like that.....
You deserve better than that.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-05-11 20:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is you are being USED.. you deserve better - if he can't be with you, why would you have sex with him?!! By having sex with him, you are TEACHING him that he can treat you this way...he will never show you respect, since you don't demand it.
I would stop the sex, tell him it is either her or you..period.. and then let him decide.. better yet, find someone who cares about you.
2007-05-11 20:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your self-respect?! You've got to quit letting this guy play you and find someone who values you for who you are, not what you can give him.
2007-05-11 20:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is using you ~ Tell him to 'shape up or ship out'...Sorry, but you are being used for xtra sex!!!!!
2007-05-11 20:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by pandora_293 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him honey!!!!! He is usung you AND her. Give him the old heave-ho!!!! He is playing you for a fool.
2007-05-11 20:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get pregnant with his child and make him pay child support.
2007-05-11 20:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋