question about hugging?

Question

i am married and i hug another guy is the wrong

Answer 1

no,if your heart is true.

Answer 2

The answer lies in your heart. The hug in itself in neither wrong or right, it's how you feel when you do. I hug a few people I hold dear to me and there is no threat to my lady. I do avoid closeness with ant woman I feel attracted to. I think you should ask your man how he feels about it as this falls in a negotiable behaviour between you both.
In reality you have the answer to your question. Be honest and if there is any sexual or doubtful feelings then it is inappropriate to put yourself in a risky situation. This of course if you love your husband.
The fact that you ask the question is a good sign of introspection looking for the right thing to do.
Be true to yourself and your husband or fix what is going wrong before investing elsewhere.

Answer 3

it depends on situation. it depends if you like him, if you think he is attractive, if you want him, it depends if he is just like an acquaintance and if he came up to you with arms open just to say hi or bye and it was like a second just to be nice - no thinking any more feelings then that, then no its not wrong, your just being nice. i mean it depends if you have feelings for this man. most people in this situation who hug others they dont do it to the ones they care about. its so weird how that works too. as an example.. i ran into someone i used to work with and he came up to me (i am married/was with a b/f at time tooo when it happened 2 different times) and just gave me a hug , i had no time to think, it was a second and he was saying bye and it meant nothing, but if like a good friend who i had feelings for , i would never be put in that position and it would be awkward and it would be wrong.

Answer 4

Well I look at it this way,would you like it if he was hugging on another women?I was at work a few years ago and a guy I went to school w/I also worked w/ then and he hugged me I just stood there,I felt like it was wronge I told my DH and he liked to have ripped his head off his sholders!
I guess it just depends on how you BOTH feel I say both because you are married!
Good luck......
Jessa

Answer 5

Gosh sweetie,don't feel awful about showing your affection to a friend, not because your married,it doesn't mean that you are not allowed to hug a friend or even a man. Since I was a kid I love to hug,esp. my parents, and now that I'm married and see a friend, (man or woman), after talking or just meeting them I do hug them,no shame on that love!!

Answer 6

No! If people think that's wrong then that's their opinion, you shouldn't care what other people think. If you want to hug another guy go for it, it doesn't mean anything. You do what you wanna do, screw what everything else thinks.

Answer 7

as long as it's a friendly hug, a greeting, then i think it's fine. if you or the guy hugging you are running your hands up and down one another,that's a different story. if i run into someone i haven't seen in a while, i always give them a hug. it's usually someone my husband knows and he's fine with it. if he doesn't know them, it's a quick hug and i introduce them.

Answer 8

It depends on what you're thinking and feeling when you're hugging the guy. If you feel a tingle in your britches, or you have feelings for him other than friendship, then that would be wrong. But if you feel nothing more than a deep caring for a friend, you're okay.

Answer 9

If it was an innocent friendly hug then you would not be asking others. You know the answer to your question because you know your feelings.

Answer 10

Depends on why you hugged him. In a friendly "hello" stituation I say its ok but if there is something more to it, and only the two of you wold know, then its wrong.

Answer 11

it depends on the intention. if it just friendly hug its ok but with lust uhuh that is absolutely wrong of course. and it depends also on your culture, because there are some people hugging is their own way of greetings, its normal for them. good luck