Right... A very lovely guy is interested in me and I like him also but he likes me for the wrongs reasons. He thinks im pretty, talented and MYSTERIOUS. This means that when he gets to get close and go out with me he will suss me out and will stop liking me because the reason why he is now with (if he ever will be) is because he does not know me and finds me intriguing. I told him I want to be friends and he said thats ok but its very evident that he is hurting very very much and becomes nervous when hes around me and happy when i compliment him. What do I do??? Does he truely like me???
2007-05-11 11:38:25 · 3 answers · asked by marisanda 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The big problem here is not whether he likes you, but if you are ever really going to like your self!
2007-05-11 11:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah this is the reason I never tell a girl why I like her. Words are far too simple to explain such a complicated thing as attraction. Perhaps you should see where it leads?
Clearly you are interested, you just said it. Now you are only setting yourself up for regret. Guaranteed. You'll always wonder. Go find out before it's too late!
2007-05-11 18:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, attraction has to be both ways. It is obvious that he has a natural attraction to you. All those reasons, are just word-fillers to explain why. But attraction itself is chemistry. Your response should therefore be honest as well. If you are also attracted to him, then you should accept. But if you actually have no chemical attraction to him but since he is friendly and good to get along with, then stay friends.
2007-05-11 18:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋