The condom burst with the guy that i was cheating with but me and my boyfriend also has been having sex now I am pregant and wanted to know was it possibe for the other guy to be the dad
2007-05-11 06:01:43 · 27 answers · asked by k s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
... Poor child...
2007-05-11 06:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention how far along you are and how long ago the condom burst. That would have been helpful information. Normally, if you get your period, you're not pregnant, so I would say if that was the last time you cheated on your boyfriend, then it's not the other man's. When you go to your doctor, though they'll be able to tell youthrough ultrasound if you got pregnant before or after that period (I had period-like bleeding while pregnant, so it's possible). If it was after, count your blessings.
If it was before...you'll have to have a DNA test done once baby is born. You can get one before birth through amniocentesis, but it's costly and risky and doctors generally won't do it unless the benefits outweight the risks, and I'm talking healthy benefits, not the benefit of you knowing who the father is, because there is a 1 in 200 rate of miscarriage after that procedure.
I hope for your sake and the baby's that you got pregnant after that period and hadn't had sex with anyone besides your boyfriend.
2007-05-11 13:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you cheated BEFORE your period and not after, then chances are your bf is the father. However, you can have a period or period type bleeding. Was this a one time occurrence, or did you cheat multiple times???
Best for you, the baby and the boyfriend is to be honest. How awful would it be to ASSUME the bf is the father then have a child that looks nothing like you OR him! That would surely suck for you.
Best advice, stop cheating for one, talk to your boyfriend, your OB and Jesus.
Best of luck to you.
2007-05-11 13:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by MommyTwice-TwiceTheLove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, there is a test that a doctor can do that can be accurate to almost the day that you conceived. if you are a sex nut and have sex everyday twice a day then this won't work. if there was say a week or more between the two guys than you might be able to tell already. honestly if you are cheating and not being faithful to one man than you shouldn't be having kids, have an abortion or put it for adoption
2007-05-11 13:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman can get pregnant and still have a period. My friend had a regular period up to 4 months of being pregnant. So either man could be the father.
You need to get a DNA test when the baby is born.
And you also need to tell your boyfriend the truth so he knows what's going on too.
2007-05-11 13:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to have DNA testing for paternity. You could ask the guy you cheated with to provide you with a sample before you ask your boyfriend. If it turns out negative, then chances are your boyfriend is the father . . . unless you've been playing the field with more than two men??? To be certain you'll also need to check your boyfirend's DNA for paternity.
2007-05-11 13:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on when your last period was and when you ovulated. If you can give me the first day of your last period ( the date ) I can get you an estimated date of conception and you can work out who the possible father might be.
This was really irresponsible of you, and I hope you have learned your lesson. You should also tell your boyfriend the truth. Remember the truth always has a way of coming out.
Best of luck!!!
2007-05-11 13:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ladybird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you cheated, then your period came...did you have sex with anyone after your period, because you wouldn't be pregnant before your period, because you had a period (which normally means your not pregnant) but whoever you had sex with after your period, is the father, if you had sex with both, then it could be both, if you cheated then its his, or if it was your boyfriend, then its his.
2007-05-11 13:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Cori 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chances are its your boyfriends baby if you got your period after you had sex with the other guy. But you should go to your doctor and maybe its worth getting tested for any STDs you might have caught from this guy.
2007-05-11 13:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Jeebus, I don't know. I guess it's possible for either one ot be the dad. You'll have to wait until the baby is born and get a DNA test.
To really get soem better guesses, you'll have to give dates of sex and the date of your last menstural period.
DN
2007-05-11 13:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is problay ur boyfriends but u would need to go to the doctor and see excatly what day u got pregnant then u can see who u sleept with during that time and if all esle fails a blood test will tell.good luck
2007-05-11 13:07:31 · answer #11 · answered by kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋