wat can I do? i simply want to get along with most people.
i skipped a couple grades and in the age of 16, im already in college. most of classmates in college is 2 or more years ahead of me. how can I build a btter relationship with them? do I not mature enuf to be their frens"?
2007-05-11 05:49:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think it is the age difference, or your level of maturity that is getting in the way of making friends. I think it is more of other people feeling challenged by your intellect. They are intimidated by how easy studies come to you. Maybe you should start by setting aside the fact that you are only 16 and skipped a couple of grades in school and are in fact more advanced then your fellow classmates. Honestly, you don't need to let people know how old you are, but don't lie about it either. Try to focus on other things like music, art, sports, books, or any other issue that floats your boat. Don't ponder so much about what you are doing that is making people avoid getting close to you, just be yourself and they will come to see how great you truly are. With much respect, good luck!!
2007-05-11 06:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by CHRIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard enough at sixteen without throwing this into the mix, isn't it. Well, a couple things to add to the advice you've already got:
1. Everybody looks different - you don't have a big sign on your head saying "I'm only sixteen!", so nobody's going to know your age unless you tell them. That's both good and bad, from a legal point of view.. So, don't worry about age or maturity so much (believe me, you're guaranteed to be more mature than some 20-year-olds!) - but do try not to do anything stupid and/or illegal for you (but not for them), just to avoid standing out.
2. The best way to make friends is to smile at people and say "Hi" Some won't respond, but some will. Talking about class and school generally leads to talking about interests and experiences. Before you know it, you've got all the friends you want!
3. In college, like in life, most friends are pretty casual - they come into and go from your life at their own speed. Some will stick, but don't expect any particular friend you make to be 'best friends forever!". That will come along in its own time. Try not to agonize over friends that drift away, but value the ones who stay close. Mostly, study hard and have fun at the social events!
2007-05-11 13:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard for you to connect with people that are 18, 19 and 20, but I'm sure it will happen once you become acclimated better to college life. Just be nice, outgoing and positive, and people will be drawn to you. If you're really having trouble meeting people, consider joining a sorority or club.
2007-05-11 12:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to help but some tips may help:
join a club
get involved in debate
go to social events like ball games and sporting events
find an activity you like, computer games, etc
mill around with people who are into things you like to do
just be yourself but be more outgoing
2007-05-11 14:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jon L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice and be yourself. Also, try looking outside of school for new friends, maybe join a gym or get a new hobby that will get you to interact with others. You sound like a mature nice person, you will have new friends in no time.
2007-05-11 12:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to yourself and others, age is no barrier for good friendship, dishonesty is a barrier; be frank with them. I too had a break of studies, it can happen to a lot of people. Come on! Cheer Up.. Have fun. Do not feel inferior.. Enjoy life as it is. Count me as a friend.
Bye
;)
2007-05-11 13:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by tkm_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u do! if they outcast you just because your younger than them they are jus jelouse that your smarter than they are. i mean you skipped grades alot of them didn't they had to work harder to get where you are, just be yourself i'm sure the right friend will come along soon!!
have fun and good luck!
2007-05-11 12:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.shakeyourshyness.com
You are chronologically younger, but if you are outgoing, introduce yourself, and are positive, you will have friends.
Be your own best friend, first.
Make the first move by introducing yourself.
2007-05-11 12:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
socialize with other people, have fun, go to parties...anything that can have alot of poeple to meet
2007-05-11 12:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and dont do what other ppl want you to do.
2007-05-11 12:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Micia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋