Im 15 and my mom made an appointment to get my hair cut today, but when i woke up this morning and my period (not my first one) had started and my stomach was bloated and upset with cramps. I can't really talk to my mom, so i couldn't tell her about how i was feeling. So she got really mad that i wasn't going and she took away pretty much all my stuff, i can't watch tv, she's taking my door of it's hinges and she will probably think of more. Don't you think she overreacted? What should i do about this?
2007-05-11 03:35:22 · 16 answers · asked by Barrel_Racing_Cowgirl 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why couldn't you just tell her?
What else is going on?
What did you tell her when you didn't want to go?
I can't say if she overreacted or not because you left out a ton of details.
2007-05-11 04:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think she over reacted big time. I went through the same things and it carried on until i was 18 & i left home to move in with my bf. I am 26 now & still don't really get on with my mum.
The only advise i can give you is tell her you are in pain or better still go to the doctors by yourself and talk to you GP about your symtoms
I don't think you need parent consent for a visit.
You will be ok i promise. Try and be strong hold it together & get your door back. She should not invade your privisy like that.
That is just being childish. Tell her fine take my belongings but if you take away my priversey i will be reporting that to the GP and anyone else that the GP will have to tell.
This may sound harsh but your 15 not 5 teenagers need time and a place to be on their own
its a human right
2007-05-11 03:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by newsboysno1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda normal if teenagers can't communicate well with their parents - at this age of yours. u can work things out if u give in and try to be honest and communicate with your mom. tell her the truth but remember, use a low tones of voice n speak nicely to her. she'll understand. btw, she's your mom - the one who gave birth to u. it should be that no one can understand us better than our mom. is she upset about anything else that she reacted that way? u might not be the cause of her 'over-reacted' behaviour.. believe me, your relationship with your mom will get better when u get older, only if u put some efforts in it. family is the most important thing n never can be replaced. just endure it patiently and try talking to your mom. no mothers want bad things for their children when they've already endured 9 months of suffering carrying us in their womb. appreciate your mom more when she's still around or u'll regret it later.
2007-05-11 03:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a crazy woman, my mom used to do that crap all the time for no reason and worse. I am so glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I agree with you. You should tell her how you fell anyway at least you can say you tried. Hang in there, you only got a few more years and you will be able to do what you want. Just ignore her if she keeps on and on, it will blow over and she will act like nothing ever happened. If she's like mine used to be she won't even apologize or think she did anything wrong. That's how crazy people think.
2007-05-11 03:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by mikeyswifeyof4 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is a great overreaction. But its also partly your fault. You should tell her. Remember she is the one and only mom you have. She cares about you no matter how much you think she doesnt. So you should talk to her.
You'll be surprised about how much she can tell you and how much she will understand
2007-05-11 08:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Leelah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 21:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wow.. yes she is a little overreacting.. I mean it's just a hair cut. But I think you should just go ahead and tell her why you don't want to go.
2007-05-11 03:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wat moms do overreact to things. You should try atleast too tell here what she doesnt want to hear I think you should also give 3-4 days when my mom overreacts she has to wait for her pride to die down
Does she know u came on your period that day?
2007-05-11 03:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by answer queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why couldnt you tell her you dont feel well. if you guys arent speaking to each other, you should at least say your tired or something. yes i do think shes overreacting.
2007-05-11 03:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by brens 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You couldn't tell her you were feeling bad? Why do I think you left something out, or you aren't as innocent as you are pretending to be.
2007-05-11 03:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by diobalik 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋