im gettin really angry because people are destroyin my hopes and dreams sayin its hard to emigrate from the uk

Question

when this is what i really wanna do, people tell me that its a difficult dream to accomplish and to lower my sites. but i dont want to, i wanna emigrate to the states and that is my ultimate goal...ill do myself in if i stay in the uk, im 29 and this is my dream, people seem to no how to wind me up, no what buttons to press,
i will emigrate or die, but this dream seems unachievable because i deal with bpd and await therapy...plus im gettin old , im 29, and im worried ive gone past some cut off point, where its too late..
what does anyone think on this situation?

Answer 1

We've heard it all so many times before. You keep asking the same old question giving the same old story time after time and yet when people tell you the truth, you start throwing your toys out of the pram because you don't like hearing the truth. Sorry, if you don't want these kind of answers, don't keep asking those kind of questions. That way you won't get so aggravated over nothing ! ! !

Answer 2

Don't let anyone take your dreams away! You are not old. Get it into your head that you may emigrate until you are one-hundred-and-seven years old... no one has the right to take away your dreams. If it is what you want, then you will find ways to accomplish it too. Who knows, three years for instance is not that long for planning and organizing and making it happen... So even with therapy coming along, why should you not keep this dream. some people take ten years or more to accomplish what they dream of, so just stick to it. People may tell you it will be hard to make it happen, but you should immediately ask them if they have any bright ideas on how to make it easier.... that gives them a chance to contribute something useful instead of negative images of failure. You know, if you feel like eating french fries, you go to the snack-bar, and if you want to emigrate, you go to... the library, the city counsel, the local know-it-all, the foreign something or other.... there are many ways leading to Rome, and there are lots of ways to your dream. If the first way isn't working, take the next. Survive! Improvise! Overcome! there is one strategy I use with plans that don't work out yet: re-think, re-plan, re-try, and recover! Just tell yourself you will succeed, and anyone daring to tell you otherwise should be ashamed of themselves. :) I wish you the very best in your new life and country!

Answer 3

I dont think it is to late for you to emigatre, but you need to find out more info on it.

My friend emigrated to Oz two years ago and they where 35 and 42, so age i dont think matters that much as you are still young..

But i do think that what you do for a living may count for alot,

You must apply for visa and work permit, go to your counsel general today and put in application for those Doc's. This the best way 2 come into the country legally, so you don't have 2 live in Fear, and your not Breaking the laws it's being Respect full of the people and our LAWS. good luck

Answer 4

Pursue your dream, then. Don't worry about the naysayers, just do what you need to, so you can emigrate. Can't imagine why you'd want to come over here to such a soulless place.

BTW, your statement that 29 is getting old just made my heart wither and turn grey a little bit...I'm going to burn some sage now and cleanse my home...

Answer 5

Firstly, 29 is not old.

Secondly, no one can destroy your hopes and dreams unless you let them. When people try to drag you down, just breathe, smile, and know that you are working for your dream and will achieve it.

I hope your therapy goes well, as you mentioned.

Answer 6

you have the talking part down but actions speak louder then words. So suck it up cupcake, if you want to emigrate clicking your heels together and saying theres no place like the u.s isnt going to cut it

Answer 7

People do that to me too. I am not immigrating anywhere, but just know that the people who are telling you that you cannot do something only say so because they were never able to fulfill that themselves. Just be sure to give them a cheesy smile and say "That's okay, I know you're pretty worthless."

Answer 8

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