Married 16 years. For several years now, I just do not have the interest in sex. I'm OK with once a month if that. She wants it all the time. It's like our roles are reversed. How common is this? P.S. We are both 34 yrs old.
2007-05-11 01:13:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've lost your libido for some reason. First you need a medical checkup to ensure that there is no medical reason, such as low testosterone, for your loss of interest. Low testosterone can be caused by drinking alcohol, as it depresses testosterone production. Other drugs which are common causes of impotence include anti-hypertensives, diuretics, narcotics, antidepressants and tranquilizers. Marijuana, cocaine and heavy cigarette smoking all decrease sexual capabilities by damaging the tiny blood vessels that supply blood to the penis.
Another cause of loss of libido can be depression. Your wife being overweight and not exciting you sexually can also cause it.
Hope this helps. If all else fails, try viagra. If you have no interest, it won't work. However, it does induce interest.
2007-05-11 01:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is common and happens to some people. Maybe you need to think of ways to spice up your love life and it may make your libido pick up. Medical advice is nice, but it may be that you hit a duldrum part of your love life as well. Don't worry, you arent the only man out there that has this problem ;). But there are ways to where you can help yourself to start enjoying sex again. The main thing is to talk to your wife and let her know you still love her and that you are willing to try and accomodate her in ways that you can at the time.
2007-05-11 08:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Goldeluxe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for this, but I understand how marriage can break a man... You have to use it or lose it...You are like a veal calf, you have been locked away in a box for years, and now she asks you to come out and run!
Get some viagra.. it is amazing, and will give you confidence and bring back the spark.
2007-05-11 08:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
34 age is not the age u should go to last phase of ur life, better u take interest & satisfy ur woman
2007-05-11 08:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by cool guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel she will understand if you want a long lasting marriage you have to communicate
2007-05-11 09:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by forever-loved<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her libido has picked up! its Really normal! i hope you will help her out as she did you when You really wanted it early on
2007-05-11 08:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋