I am a regular guy who likes sports especially boxing! I have a job that I like and enjoy doing. I am very outgoing and I tend to make friends with everyone I meet. I have what some would say a hottie for a girlfriend. My only problem is I can't seam to keep them for long. My other problem is the more I fail at "relationships" the more I become attracted to shemales, trannies,and tranvestites. WHY? I like woman but I think I like men who look like woman more! I don't really like the gay guys but if I see a good looking tranny I go insane! Is there something wrong with me?!
2007-05-11 00:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by redwolfman56 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nothing wrong with you at all, you're just attracted to transsexuals. Nothing at all wrong with that.
I say if you are open to it, try dating one, and see if you enjoy them as people, not just sexual objects.
I guess I should add that you should figure out what's attractive about them. Some men find them attractive because they're like super-women, they go out of their way to be feminine. Some like them because they're women with penises. I remember one guy left his wife and kids for one in Thailand because as he said she's hot like a girl but likes sex like a man.
So I say find out what's more attractive about them to you, if it's the fact that they're an exotic version of a female, or super-feminine, just so you can be more specific about what you're looking for.
But again, nothing wrong with you, I don't even consider this weird at all, it's just attraction.
I like chunky men, you like transsexuals, to each his own.
Oh, I should add, the only things that are really taboo are things that don't allow consent, such as pedophilia, bestiality, and incest.
If what you do is consensual, and loving, and makes you happy, then by all means go for it, be happy.
2007-05-11 02:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're bi, but only find men attractive if they're taking on some aspect of femininity.
"My other problem is the more I fail at "relationships" the more I become attracted to shemales, trannies,and tranvestites. WHY? I like woman but I think I like men who look like woman more! I don't really like the gay guys but if I see a good looking tranny I go insane!"
As shown by the above statement. Not actually attracted to TS (transsexed) people, but men with a liking for dressing up as women or taking on a trait typically associated with women rather than TS people who have a birth defect which they correct in the only way possible.
Hmm, I'd say you have a fetish which appears to be a fairly major part of your life.
2007-05-11 06:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by TFR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prevailing opinion is that there are two basic reasons:
1) The guy is really gay, but can't admit it to himself. Therefore having a man in the "package" of a woman pacifys his subconscious and allows him to admit the attraction.
2) The guy is intimidated by women. Their parts are different than his, their sexual fulfillment is different than his, and he is (consciously or subconsciously) scared of being bad in bed. Having a "woman" with parts he understands solves this dilemma.
2007-05-11 02:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by mrthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
transgender women are exotic erotic women , transgender women tend to be ultra feminine and since they wernt born women tend to try harder at being a perfect woman . hint here treat her like a woman and she will repsond to you like a woman , the trick here lies in you can you accept her even around your buddies . btw she is a trangender woman not man and be polite and use all of the feminine pronouns when speaking to her or about her . there is nothing wrong with you you have just opened your mind to a slightly different kinda woman one that you will probably enjoy being around alot
2007-05-11 07:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is "wrong" with you in your attractions. No one really has a choice in their attractions. You either click or you don't. If you like transgender men, then try dating one and see where it takes you.
If you are having trouble with failed relationships, you may need to see a counselor to determine what is going wrong.
Best of luck.
2007-05-11 01:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all there's nothing about your personality that would preclude being gay. But you're not what I would call gay, you have tranny chaser tendancies, also "transgender men" is a lebel thats claimed by female-to-male transsexuals, not male-to-female.
2007-05-11 06:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by geramd4040 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you. You just like a very nice and attractive woman. But what you really want is her penis.
Nothing wrong with that at all.
2007-05-11 03:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by vacationman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you since you cant keep realationships you want to go out with some one that you have stuf in colman with
2007-05-11 00:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped believing you when you said that you make friends with everybody that you meet.
Proverbs 12:25, 26
Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.
The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.
2007-05-11 00:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by MiD 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
You need therapy
2007-05-11 00:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by John L 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋