2007-05-09 16:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Alyce m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My best friends fiance left her to go back to his babys mama that he hated for last 4 yrs.Why do guys go back to their babys mama even if they have hated them?
2007-05-09 16:35:16 · update #1
Because there is a bond between them... the baby.
2007-05-09 16:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really under stand why men cheat with there X's there X's for a reason . I will tell you some thing and I think it will blow your mind like it did mine . We moved from where we used to live our son moved up here with his girl friend she lived away from her family for 1 year and she completed her high school so she graduate and her parents came up and there partners stayed home these people have been divorced for 15 yrs. or better they came to my house at 11:30 after we all went out for dinner I told my sons girlfriend that her Mom should stay with her and her Dad could stay with us . The next thing I see was both of them coming into our house and I said okay well I have the 2 rooms so I told the Mom you can stay here and the Dad can stay her the next thing I see is they both went into the same room together . How can you do that to the people you are supposed to love I can't see that . So I can't understand it either I can't tell you if it is because they can and they think that they are getting over on someone .I will tell you one thing if my husband or boyfriend was to Cheat on me his crap would be packed and out side locks would be changed and I would go about my business yes it would hurt but I will not let someone make a fool of me like that
2016-05-19 04:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that men feel that thier ex's (babys mamas) are "sure" things. maybe he was just looking for a fling. in any case its not going to stop! you can bet on that, and if i were your friend, i'd move on! her soon to be, has not quite grown up yet, and it sounds like he wont anytime soon! there are men out there that are responsible, caring, and respectful men! she needs to find one of those! if she continues to let him walk on her, she'll be walked on for a long while! i hope for the best! good luck!
2007-05-09 17:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by brn.eyed.grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question baby mamas can be manipulators and very controling, they have away of messing with your mind
2007-05-09 17:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by social_outlaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that let's her know he really doesn't love her if he is oging back to his baby's mama. Why did she let her fututre husband go back to his ex anyway? Is she dumb.
2007-05-09 17:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have a baby with someone you will always have a bond that will never be broken no matter what.
2007-05-09 17:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have a history together and mutual children, which is a very strong pull if they are decent men.
2007-05-09 18:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are may reasons that this happen. but the common one
i believe that they have a child together and they spent a lot
of time with that person..
2007-05-09 16:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your friend latch on to a loser to begin with?
2007-05-09 17:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's best for the child and you shouldn't get in the middle of that.
2007-05-09 18:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋