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I cant put a freaking tampon in and I'm pretty sure its the right hole since its where the blood comes from. Ive tried small tampons but they wont go it and it hurts really bad and I've done the hole thing with my foot on the toilet and angling the tampon

plus i have like 4 holes on either side and I'm pretty sure that isn't normal

please help I'm like breaking down =(

2007-05-09 16:26:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

its not as obvious as my asshole and **** theyre like super clothes to the vaginal hole...im so confused and freaking out

2007-05-09 16:47:23 · update #1

10 answers

Sounds like you've already squatted over a mirror so you could see what's down there.

Most times hymens have one opening; rarely they're imperforate with no opening, and between the two, sometimes a hymen will have several holes.

The last sounds like your case, and your GYN can fix that with a couple of snips.

2007-05-09 16:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Paul P 4 · 0 0

It is probably your hymen. It is a tissue that covers the vagina, and can be worn away or broken due to various things, like sports. Normally, this tissue is thin, but it can be very think (just normal variation from person to person). I would assume (from your previous question) that when you tried to inserted the tampon, you may have not been able to due to the possibility of having a thicker hymen. The holes you are describing may be small tears in the tissue, caused by the tampon. It is normal, and this would help in the erosion of the tissue to the point where the is none. Do not listen to the person above me about a carrot and a condom (honestly, why people masturbate with vegetables is beyond me). Just try again with the tampon. You may have given the tissue the break it need to easily give way to the tampon.

PS: And in case you are worrying, the loss of the hymen does not mean the loss of your virginity. As long as you have not had sex, you are still a virgin. Each person defines his or her own virginity. Some people may believe that once they have penis/vagina intercourse, they are no longer virgins, while other people believe that engaging in any type of sexual act will make them lose their virginity. I think virginity is more a state of mind than a physical state. As long as you believe that you're a virgin, you are one.

2007-05-09 23:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by a6385u 3 · 0 0

Definitely look up the healthy strokes website - it has great pictures of the different types of hymens [ no, they are not all the same ].
If you have already done the squatting over a mirror bit, you now know what you're working with. If you have at least one hole big enough to put your finger in, you can use a tampon.
Use vaseline on the end, and aim towards the small of your back.
If you don't have any holes large enough, even with a little gentle stretching, see your GYN. [ show your mom the picture ]. For goodness sake, don't try to have sex to 'fix' it.

2007-05-10 01:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0 0

the very small holes may be the openings to your bartholins duct or skenes glands - ignore those for now. concentrate on only the vaginal opening. sounds like you know exactly where it is and you are looking down there - thats great. dont freak or break down, we all have problems putting them in at first, it just take some practice. try the smallest tampons possible and try inserting a different angles, a little up or a little down- you will eventually find the correct angle and it will slide in and feel comfortable. Dont worry, you will get it soon

2007-05-10 01:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You do not have 4 holes around you vagina.

Find a hand mirror and have a nice sit on the floor or on your bed and take a good look at your girly bits. Spread your vaginal lips and explore.

You should have 3 holes... Your uretra, where you pee.. your vagina and then a way around.. your anus...

Inside your vagina, you hymen may have more than one hole... if that bothers you... you may not want to hear this... but some quality time in there with your finger (or a carrot in a condom) will break it down...

2007-05-09 23:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by super_deformed_girl 4 · 2 1

There are really two holes in that area. It is your vagina and the hole where your urine comes from (called urinary tract). If you try to put tampon there, it for sure is going to hurt like hell. So, your urinary tract hole is on the front part (close to your clitoris), and your vagina is the next hole if you move back towards your anus. So, never try to put anything in your urinary tract hole. When I was a virgin, I also didn't know where my vagina was and I really was concerned like you :) That's because when you are a virgin, your vagina is really small and even closed by the hymen, and the only hole that you can really see is your urinary tract. In not virgins the difference is very distinct. So, you don't have to use tampones for now, or if you use them, make sure you put them into your hole that is NEXT to your urinary tract.

2007-05-10 00:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by a girlfriend 3 · 0 1

It might just be your hymen ....sometimes there can be several holes that will eventually be broken down into one bigger hole.....and which can definitely make using a tampon when you are young or a virgin difficult.

If you are still worried, you can always go see your doctor, and I'm sure he/she would be happy to figure this out for you.

Check out the website below (make sure to scroll all the way down)

2007-05-09 23:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lollipop Guild 1 · 6 0

I don't know about 8 holes, you might have a conginal abnormality. Sometimes women have 2 vagina, or 2 seperate reproducative system, but I've only ever heard or read about 2. Go talk to your dr, they are the only ones that can tell you.

2007-05-10 01:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

what do u mean u have 4 holes on either side. The only holes u should have down there are: vigina (where yes u would put ur tampon or a penis), your butt hole
thats not right, please explain more

2007-05-09 23:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by vtvermont 1 · 0 0

No, no , no, no please run to the doctor and get that checked out now. If you don't you could die within a year of getting symptoms that include body flooding.

2007-05-09 23:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by JB 2 · 1 6

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