Leo female crushing on an Aquarius male, think he's interested but can't really tell. Am I wasting my time?

Question

I've worked with this guy for 10+ months, some days he seems very interested, others, not so much. I realize Aqua's do the aloof thing but should I wait for him to make a move or move on?

Answer 1

Aquarians never follow a predictive behaviour pattern. Just to warn you.

Answer 2

Leo + Aquarius

Fire + Air = Hot Air


They say that opposites attract. In astrology, when a star sign is the seventh or opposite sign of another (and Aquarius is your seventh sign), it’s a good omen for an enduring partnership — but only under certain conditions. A match between Leo and Aquarius could work well, or crash and burn; Aquarius’s quiet intellectual curiosity could work with or against your attention-seeking style.

Being a fire sign, you are spontaneous and emotional, outgoing and bubbly; Aquarians are cool and airy, aloof and detached. Aquarius could find your loudness and your love of the limelight over the top, and you could find Aquarius much too rational and distant.

However, the two of you are very similar on at least on one count. You’re both wilful and self-centred. Both of you have very firm views — you could fight over social, political and philosophical opinions. Try not to let the airiness of Aquarius ignite your rage.

There will have to be some adjusting and compromising on both sides of this combination, or it will just turn into a battlefield.

Some Leos are really conservative, surprisingly. Aquarius is the opposite: very progressive, and without much respect for the conventional approach. Here is another bone of contention. You might start to ask yourself — is there any value in this relationship? Yes, there is.

For one thing, you could be very attracted to each other. Marriage, or at least a serious relationship heading in that direction, will be a natural next step at some point after you meet.

If you are a Leo looking for a long-term friendship with an Aquarian, consider those born between 21 January and 30 January. They are extremely well suited to your temperament, notwithstanding some of the above differences between you.

Aquarians born from 31 January to 8 February will make good friends who are happy to share their insights and experiences with you. They are also good lovers, so they could be quite well suited to you as romantic partners.

Probably the best Aquarians for you are those born between 9 February and 19 February. They will be staunchly loyal supporters of anything you set out to do, and will not compete with your powerful ego. This is a very good match as far as Aquarius is concerned, too.

Answer 3

LEO AND AQUARIUS
There is initial physical attraction between these two, but Aquarius's tendency to analyze and criticize will shake Leo's confidence and deflate its ego. Leo views Aquarius's aloof emotions as a personal rejection. Also, Aquarius's unconventional, experimental approach to love may prove upsetting to Leo, who doesn't like to wander too far afield. Both like socializing and meeting new people, but Leo always needs to perform on center stage, which makes Aquarius impatient and irritable. Aquarius is too independent to become Leo's devoted subject. And that's where it ends.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 4

Aquarians aren't really aloof. If he was interested in you he would have asked you out by now. He probably thinks you are a really cool person but you are getting that confused with flirting or sexual attraction.
Just keep going on like you are, if by chance he is shy, then he may take a little time asking you out.

Answer 5

I'm an aquarian male and we tend to develop an interest in people that intrigue us. we would be more interested in a book that is shut tight rather than an open one for example but for the most part dint base what he or you may feel on a horoscope if you like him go for it and be careful

Answer 6

Horoscopes are nice and all but you can't base every life decision off of what they say. If you both like each other it can work, whether you're horoscope says it can or not. Maybe try some traditional methods, like asking him to go get coffee or a bite to eat after work one day?

Answer 7

His first contact with a woman has to be made through the mind. Before he can become physically stimulated, he must be intellectually stimulated. For Aquarius the meeting of minds always precedes the meeting of bodies. He wants to make love to somebody, not just any body. Give him half a chance and he'll fall in love. He thinks that that is a natural—and delightful—condition. But falling in love and loving mean two different things to this man, and the latter is likely to bring out his inner conflicts. One reason is that Aquarius tends to repress emotion. He is a cerebral sign, and he's somewhat unnerved and embarrassed by emotion. Also, love represents a demand on him and he has a fierce need for independence. In addition, loving means making room for another person, and in common with the other fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio). Aquarius does not adapt easily to others. Others have to adapt to him.

He is very attractive to women, but he may not linger long in a liaison. To him, love passes like a train in the night and there is always another train coming along the track. Yet Aquarius isn't a Don Juan. He is remarkably true to this women—in his fashion. He doesn't try to keep many women on his string at one time. Rather he believes in consecutive monogamy. Even if he marries, he doesn't consider the bond to be forged in steel. Aquarius men are the most often married in the zodiac.
The Aquarius man does not expect any woman to be easily won. His patience is proverbial and a woman may finally make the proposition herself. Then, surprisingly, she'll discover how intensely and passionately her Aquarius lover has wanted her. When a love affair is underway he makes up for lost time. A woman will find that making love with him is like living in the midst of a carnival—there's always a new and exciting ride.

Aquarius is the sign of truth, and this man doesn't lie or misrepresent himself. This is, of course, a winning quality—though in Aquarius's case it sometimes has unexpected consequences. One young woman I know spotted this quality in her Aquarius lover. She compelled him at various times throughout the day to tell her how he felt about her at that exact moment: "To tell you the truth, right now I'm not as much in love with you as I was this morning."

In a love affair Aquarius is generous and tolerant, the kind who tries never to encroach on your rights or to give orders. A love relationship with him has many of the elements of friendship—intellectual interests, social compatibility. He won't be selfish or domineering either. He may be less than fiery, but he is a surprising, stimulating, broadminded, and inventive lover. Don't fence him in. Once this man is in love with you he will stay pretty much in his pasture. But he must feel the escape routes are open.



HOW TO ATTRACT AQUARIUS

These highly social creatures make friends easily. They are amusing, interesting conversationalists who nonetheless prefer to discuss what is significant or important. Don't be surprised if they don't reach any conclusions, though. When you're dealing with eternal verities, it's hard to come to the point. Aquarians are usually courteous but elusive. There is no way to breach this demeanor—especially not with a direct attack. When faced with a head-on approach, Aquarians tend to retreat.

It is easy to draw out their compassionate qualities. They are humanitarians whose interests stretch far beyond the horizon. They see the big picture, not its little flaws. They are interested in books, art, or scientific matters. Most Aquarians have an interest in science. They are also fascinated by hobbies and gadgets. If you can't share all their interests, at least try not to be jealous of the fact that Aquarians have so many. They can't help it; it's in their stars.

Aquarians are not steak-and-potatoes people;they prefer to try the little place that features a quiet existence with a few close friends. Chinois cuisine—a combination of Chinese and continental cooking. Aquarians are always delighted with the different. Give them time to know you, trust you, depend on you. Aquarians may take advice but are too smart to be fooled. They won't keep taking bad advice; they'll just avoid the adviser.

Important: Never nag Aquarians about a mistake. They will acknowledge one readily enough, but then forget it. A mistake seems genuinely unimportant to them, and if you keep harping on it they'll just think you are strange.


Leo is delighted by Aquarius's sexual inventiveness, and Aquarius is drawn to Leo's fire and robust zest for living. These two opposites in the zodiac start off on a high note, but then the notes go sour. Basically, Leo is physical and Aquarius is mental. Leo can't get the cooperation or the admiration it requires, and Aquarius resents Leo's attempt to rule. They have different views of independence: to Aquarius it means freedom to explore new horizons; to Leo it means pursuing a glamorous, extravagant lifestyle. Aquarius is interested in the world; Leo is strictly interested in Leo.

Answer 8

if you want to keep an aquar interested you have to be loose and able to 'go with the flow' and be assertive or they will quickly loose interest, try being more spontanious