Do you ever feel so alone?

Question

I swear some days I feel so alone and like no one cares about me and like I have no one to talk to.... I am engaged and have a 2 y/o {who i know loves me,lol} but I just feel so "alone" sometimes....
Does anyone else ever feel like this??

I guess I could add, my nana passed away 2 years ago {i was SO close to} my extended family is small and VERY disfunctional, my fiance acts like he is tired of me, mainly b/c I have stomach issues {from anxiety, at leat thats what i've been told} and can't do a lot of things i used to go do....I think it's all just so overwhelming at times, I am scheduled to talk to a therapist on the 23rd...wish me luck

and, my daughter is my entire world and I am only TRUELY happy when I'm with her...

Answer 1

yes, do u suffer from depression or anxiety ? I feel alone alot and I suffer from these conditions.

Answer 2

I feel alone all the time, but only because I am. I have no children; I have no significant other; I have no close family (besides my mother and we are not close); I have a chronic illness that I take care of and I keep very active (people are shocked), but it makes me feel different from other people. I don't know all of the elements of your life, so I won't judge you. But, beyond suggesting that you may be depressed (maybe postpartum), I would suggest that your practice thankfulness meditation. Just try to get some time alone (when that's possible) and just list the things you are thankful for in that minute of that day. Make it a habit. If your fiance is a good person, he should be high on your list. If not. If he leaves you alone alot or doesn't spend time with the family, maybe that's a sign for you. Maybe you need a break from childcare if you are not also working outside of the home or if your fiance doesn't help you much. Personally and theoretically, I would love to be in a relationship and have a child, but life and the grass on the other side, is not that simple, I know. Feel better.

Answer 3

I do feel alone sometimes like no one cares. It is a sign of dependency on a certain person. If u have a crush on sum1 then its a need 4 them. If your parents arent always home then most likely u want time with them. If u dont have any friends then u are in want of a friend. To mend this smiply find some1 2 talk 2 even if it is ur pet or ur pen pal that lives 100 's of miles away. U could use a friend to lean on.

Answer 4

I certainly do feel lonely at times, but the thing is that you can't let it consume you. Most people will tell you to find activities that won't let that feeling come over you, but the truth of the matter is, lonliness hits at the most unexpected time.

Since you are in an LTR and have a child, focus your attention on being a good parent and a thoughtful and caring mate to your partner. That may ease some of what you're feeling. While the feeling of lonliness can't be completely eliminated, it is important to keep yourself occupied with positive activities.

I work a lot of long hours, so that keeps my mind off of my lonliness.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

I used to feel this way but not anymore. It's just a feeling and I think everyone has felt this way at some point in their lives maybe some more then others but know that your not alone and you do have people who love you like you said your enaged and you have a child so that should tell you that you have your finacee and child who love you and I'm sure your family loves you aswell but you know who loves you most of all? Jesus does. I know you proably didn't want to hear that but I felt the need to tell you because it's true. If you need a friend you can always email me.

Answer 6

I asked a question exactly like this just the other day, maybe you'll want to look through my answers i got.

Yeah, i feel alone even though i have family that love me a bf that loves me and nothing really to worry about.

I'm not sure if you feel more unappreciated than anything? Or if you just feel alone like i do, then the next day are over it - because thats what happens to me.

Answer 7

I feel like this almost everyday of my life especially lately at least you found someone that loves you girl my bf of 4 years broke my heart by telling me to leave him alone havent spoken in over a month I lost all of my friends over the years and now Im so lonely all I do is work and go to school so I know how you feel but just know that your lucky to have your loving fiance

Answer 8

I am right there with you, I also have a toddler she is 18 months old. She is with me all the time but yet I feel so alone and unappreciated by her father. I spend all day cooking and cleaning for him and as soon as he gets home I don't even get a hello or how was your day. Talking to him is like talking to the wall. I get out every Monday with my sister but besides that I don't get to talk to all my friends I had before baby came along. I thought I would be over all this by now, but the feeling still lingers. Sometimes I feel like I am wasting my time trying to even get him to acknowledge me. Just like tonight instead of wanting to spend time with me, he is upstairs watching the Speed channel so here I am feeling like that is more important than me.

Answer 9

Well not alone alone but sometimes I feel lost and left behind but I work to catch up I began feeling this way when my Grandmother first got sick when I got home after school I would just sit at home and watch TV sometimes I use to want to cry my eyes out but I would pray and write in my journal just to keep busy and when my Granny died I thought it was the end for me but things got better but once in a blue moon I feel a feeling such as your (alone) but I move on and get busy with life...LIVE life to the fullest work hard and SMILE life isn't so bad after all

Answer 10

As an only child I felt alone especially when I have nothing to do on the weekends, I've always wanted a borther or a sister or someone to play with at home. But with my family & friends they always keep company. But sometimes feeling alone for me is like going on a rollercoater & theres no one there to have fun with you except stangers you dont know. I just needed someone with me.
Take Care.

Answer 11

That feeling of being alone comes from somewhere. You must find out where it comes from and why your made to feel like this. When you do, you won't be alone any more. Hopefully, you will look at strategies that will assist you with being and feeling complete.
Just sit quietly and be focused on why you feel this way?
Is your partner contributing to your loneliness? And if so, try to engage in a discussion with him about these feelings?