I am tring to make up for my past im this relationship. But it seems the more I do the worse Im disrespected. I stay home and clean and take care of kids now instead of partying and whoreing around. It looks like to me it would be a better enviroment but its like its worse. So should I countiune to try when I feel its making this worse. I cant even get any love at all since I changed and it gets worse Im ingored and bossed. So I just dont know how to countinue this marrige. Ill probally get a case of the **** ITS again.
2007-05-09 16:01:58 · 3 answers · asked by antiworlddc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't just expect a forgive and forget... There are alot of hurt stomped on feelings and it takes alot of time for them to heal. she is probably trying to make you feel likee she did, while you were out having fun and ignoring your responsibilities and duties as a husband and she was stuck at home lonely and wondering why you were doing this to her. Don't be a door mat. It sounds lik some marriage counseling could help. I know its a nasty word or words but if you want to save your marriage it couldn't hurt to look at the possibility of it.
2007-05-09 16:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by angiee631 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with your wife..and ask her does she even want the marriage to work? if she answers yes* then ask her what it is you're doing wrong in her eyes as you are being ignored..bossed around and get no lovin* You feel since you've changed, are staying home cleaning, taking care of the kids...things have gotten worse. There's no respect for you in this relationship and you've been TRYING very hard to make a wrong...Right again. You havnt gone out partying ..so what is her problem? Just come straight out and ask her* Best WisheS* ps>>if you're feeling like things have gotten worse..and she doesn't want to answer your questions or try to resolve issues to make your marriage work...I would then let her know that occassionally you'll be goin out with the guys and the rest of the time you'll be a devoted father to your child/children* Hope things work out for ya* Keep on Smilin*
2007-05-09 23:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time. You need to establish some trust, although it's hard to admit that. This time you know how much you value your marriage, so make it work. Try harder. You definitely shouldn't give up. After you've been through all of this, you realize how much you can do to make things better, so just do it.
2007-05-09 23:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ciavana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋