Is the URGE to BREED that irresistible to a woman that her open mind falls out of her head and she cheats because there was "something missing". Then all she has to do is take her dirty little secrets to the grave.
2007-05-09 15:37:31 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think so. That's actually quite belittling towards women don't you think??? Women tend to cheat for other reasons... It has nothing to do with "the urge to breed". However, I think that if anyone cheats, they are a piece of sh*t. There is absolutely zero reasons to cheat. If the relationship is that tough to be in, then get out. There are plenty of women out there who don't cheat...ever.
2007-05-09 15:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Vindicatedfather 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you are very bitter and your views on women are very stereotypical. Not all women cheat. Just the ones who aren't woman enough to tell a man she's bored and wants more. Or the ones who are not sure what they want so they test the waters elsewhere.
But there are many of us who are happy with the way things are. And there are many who are not happy but still wouldn't cheat. And there are those who are woman enough to actually break up with the man they are with before looking elsewhere.
I've never cheated, and neither have most of my friends. Most cheating women fit into a category that is easy to spot... at least to other women. I can see them a mile away. I suggest you find a female friend you can trust, and take their advice if you are so unsure about women
2007-05-09 15:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look - women hate to admit that they cheat BUT they do!
Not all women cheat but I bet that if women were really honest, they have thought about it or completed the act. Women need lots of compassion and quality time! Men hate that crap.
Currently I have considered cheating and I am not sure why.
I have been married for about 4 years and love my husband but he likes to stay home and never does anything. I can not even tell you the last time he complimented me. He does not notice if I get my hair cut or if something is bothering me at work. Our sex is still great but once we complete the act, we roll over and go to sleep.
I think he looks at me as a mom and not as a sexual being anymore and sometime I just want to feel like that again.
I know it is silly but sometimes.... I think if I could just cheat one time and feel alive again. Like I have something more than just cleaning and cooking skills.
The worst part is the struggle inside your heart because you know it is wrong but you want to feel wanted so badly, you fall into the trap of cheating.
I think this happens with men not just women and sometimes they need to know they are wanted not just needed.
I have tried over and over again to make changes, try new ventures, taking vacation time, talking to my husband about what I feel but he just thinks it will pass and it is almost like denial on his part.
I hope this at least helps you to understand that YES women are missing something and it is not always something the man can help, unless the women tells him.
As for the second part of your question... yes again she can take it to the grave but she has to live and die with it too. Beleive me that is punishment enough! After she cheats she will regret it and maybe do it again,... again regret again. Pain fills a void even if it is not something that feels good, it takes the place of the missing.
2007-05-09 15:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman cheats when the brain of her mate dries up like a raisin and he dissolves into a lard pile reeking of beer. There is NO URGE TO BREED. Pregnancy is not a flight of fancy, my man. It's a commitment to love with a life mate. She will cheat because there is no reason to breed with the heap o' mess on the sofa. Burp.
2007-05-09 15:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a matter of time before anyone cheats?
One would think that there is more to a person than the sum of his or her biology. This is why we were instilled with intelligence and insight. We have the power to make conscience decisions.
One cheats in a moment but regrets forever. A person without character can cheat at anything...not just sexually.
I prefer to think that humans are a step above animals.
2007-05-09 15:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by kishoti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u saying that all women are whores who just want sex? Boy man are u messing with the wrong girl. No, not all women just want sex. Women do not and cannot live on sex, so what's the use anyway? Yes, it's pleasurable, but it only lasts for a while. Then all the magic is gone. Think of it as Cinderella. The fun only lasts till midnight.
Oh, FYI: this question is insulting and u should be glad I can't go kick ur f******* a**
2007-05-09 15:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to suggest that you are starting to sound a bit bitter about the edges...have you been burned???? Of course NOT all women cheat, and neither do all men. Some do, but not all. Considering the number of husbands that step out, I am surprised that more women don't even up the score. Good luck
2007-05-09 15:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have been hurt by a woman who cheated on you. If so, I'm sorry. Most women are not like that. I personally am a one man woman. And, in turn, want a man who is a one woman man. Take care.
2007-05-09 15:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if a woman wants to “BREED” she can throw that tiny little birth control pill over her shoulder instead of into her mouth OR poke a needle through your condom… that’s if she really wanted to breed with YOU.
A cheat is a cheat male or female
2007-05-09 15:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by never mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated, nor have I ever been inclined to cheat. If every woman you date is cheating on you, then you either choose the wrong women or are lacking in "know how" on how to treat a woman. Good luck.
2007-05-09 15:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by delanabobana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋