I have noticed that married men who have beautiful and skinny wives, cheat with heavy women. I have notice men who are married to heavy women, cheat with skinny women.
I noticed the same thing for women who marry heavy or skinny men.
Are married couples just looking for variety when they cheat or is it something else?
2007-05-09 15:36:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's the excitement of sex with a stranger. There is no history with a stranger.......no arguements or disagreements. Just a couple of hours of great sex.
2007-05-09 18:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of personal integrity! If you seek to be with another, simply end the current marriage. This is pure selfishness at it's core. All can have what they want, but there will always be a way to attain it and the method used speaks volumes about the parties involved. Even though it was done in the "old days" as well, there was respect (though limited), shown. Spencer Tracy and Katheryn Hepburn, ring a bell, they were selfish and remained so but, at least they had a later thought after the attraction. Think about it, it means a lot!
2007-05-09 16:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by duccees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd cheat out of hornyness.
If it was emotional, I would treat myself to starbucks, some new clothes, a new purse ... and a hot bubble bath ... and repeat until I felt better. Usually one day is all I can take. And afford.
Luckily my man has a big wang chung and keeps me on the least satisfied end. I have toys ... I'll keep myself occupied. You'd never know what you can do with fresh vegetables ... pretty fun.
If its psychological... then you're just a hoe in denial.
So if its emotional I shop. Only hornyness would make me cheat. But I got a great man. I'd rather screw a veggie to get off ... than blow my marriage apart.
2007-05-09 17:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel a person cheats when they are truly not happy, most people are afraid to start over and therefore even if they are not happy in the relationship they rather stay in it but at the same time look for an escapade ie cheating...others have no self respect...for example I love myself too much and feel that cheating on my BF would not only disrespect him but most importantly me as a woman...i would never do such thing there is no point to it..if i am not happy with my BF/Husband then might as well be alone...and when you are truly happy you want no one but your significant other..
2007-05-09 16:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by JM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat because some need is not being met.
I guess maybe people with spouses who've let themselves go, that in itself is what they're looking for - a better looking partner. People whose partner looks good ... they allready have that. They are looking for some other quality, and they might almost be biased thinking 'i'm not just choosing someone based on how they look, i want someone passionate/caring/etc'.
Almost evidence of why they don't leave the spouse for the other party. The other party is not 'better' then the spouse in all ways. Just in some specific ways where their spouse (or relationship) is lacking.
2007-05-09 16:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating has little to do with what a person looks like on the outside, and more to what is in the inside. Cheating is a symptom of a greater marital issue. Needs aren't being met at home (physical, mental, emotional) and the married person will reach out to the most receptive person they can find who will meet the needs. If that person is skinny...so be it....if they are fat...so be it. It is wrong either way.
2007-05-09 15:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, a happily married person may desire to have sex with someone else. A happy marriage is about a lot more than just sex. One can be happy in a relationship, but still enjoy a forbidden thrill.
2016-05-19 04:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by nicolette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an Indian saying that my friend use to tell me, if you have clopatra as a wife you still want to keep a monkey as your mistress.
That is what shd be the answer to your question.
2007-05-09 15:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do it b/c the person that they cheat with meets there needs. It doesn't always have to be someone prettier. Maybe that person gives them attention that they otherwise wouldn't get.
2007-05-09 15:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent you heard the grass is greener on the other side . well how would you know if you were color blind. By saying that i mean they don't know what they want .But not all married couples do that .
2007-05-09 16:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ruth U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋