i am 14 and my boyfriend is 13 he is almost 14 and we are deeply in love age doesnt matter 2 us ..n he is so nice and sweet but he has made some bad decisions cuz he wanted 2 prove he loved me after we broke up so now he is in juvie..but we r still goin out n we promised sex at age 19..should we be that deeply in love....i miss him so much i cry all the time 4 no reason......he cared so much......we believe we are made 4 each other..true love......n so do our friends they told us when we turn 18 go n get married...lol.plz help cuz i need 2 know
2007-05-09 15:12:10 · 16 answers · asked by Cai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hunny i definately believe in love at a young age..i dont think that age matters... If u truely love him...just know that as you grow up more, things will change and you have to accept that and Still stay strong...Just know that you have to be mature enough to ACCEPT marriage..which comes with ups and downs...I got marrried when i was 17, because i had a baby by my husband..but, we are going strong still and have been for 4 years,,, so YEs if you are still together and love each other..go for it! alot of things change when you get married....GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-09 15:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think your like 22, but you are still 14, you may be more mature than some girls, but marriage isn't easy when your in your 30's or 40's, so why rush it. If you know your meant to be then wait. I know you think your in love, but love is something most of us don't even have concept of when we're older. You cry because you miss him, get out and be with friends, your to young to sit and worry about something that you have no control of right now. At 14 I had no idea what it meant to be in love, I didn't even have a boyfriend. At 16 I still had no concept of what love actually was, thought I was until he or I would find someone else. That is part of life, having your heart broken several times before you find that one person who you truly love. I was 21 when I finally met the man I loved. If at 18 you and he are still together and want to marry then do so, but make sure it is for the right reasons. Life is hard enough without added stress.
2007-05-09 22:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my first love for ten years since I was 12. We still love each other very much but it wasn't meant to be. You will just have to grow up and find out for your self. Live and Learn thats all you can do. You don't know what will happen. Things change, People change. Thats a good age to get married but myself I'm waiting till I turn 25.
2007-05-10 00:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your question actually is written in a dumb tone, so yes you may be dumb.
You don't wanna hear this, but this is not THE one. I think you should date others when you are up to it and if the original loser delinquint changes for the better and straightens his life out and you are still "in love" at 19 or 20 then go back out with him. You have to be kidding talking about marriage at 14 years old. Go to the mall and hang out.
2007-05-09 23:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey you probably won't even remember his name in 20 years. I know that sounds harsh, but it's true. We've all been madly, deeply in love at age 14. It has to do with hormones and coming of age. The bright side is, if it IS true love, nothing and no one, not even time itself, will stand in it's way. So hold steady and don't rush into sex or marriage. Remember, time will tell. Good luck to you both.
2007-05-09 22:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would highly doubt that you have enough experience to know how to distinguish puppy love from true love. At 14, you should be worried about school and friends, not getting married. If the guy is 13 and already in juvie, I would serioulsy reconsider dating him.
2007-05-09 22:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by klynnr_1981 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well of course age doesn't matter when you're 14 - it's all you know. However when you turn 25 you'll look back and wonder what you were thinking. I hate to break it to you - but age DOES matter. Age isn't just a number -age can speak for maturity, experience, endurance, etc.
2007-05-09 22:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
22 is an acceptable age to get married at. That is a long way away for you, but that is okay. You need that time to mature.
2007-05-09 22:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably your "first love"...it may last, but it probably won't. So...you need to stay healthy, stay in school and stay out of trouble. If when you are 20 years old and you're still together and still in love, get engaged...but don't get married until you are at least 24 or 25.
2007-05-09 22:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, your young and you have your whole teenage and adult life ahead of you. Have fun, but dont get committed. Trust me there is alot of fun things to do out there. And you will always have friends around. Don't be a fool and start out early..OK I got married when i was 18 and that was the dumbbest thing i have ever done. i regret it. i have missed my whole teenage life. learn by other peoples mistakes.
2007-05-09 23:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey B. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋