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Or do you think some of them could be like me? (back when everyone thought I was a butch lesbian) Funny, sarcastic, smartasses, with a very unique and creative sense of humor?

2007-05-09 14:53:28 · 13 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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I'm a mean and cold and angry butch (just don't ask any of my friends for verification because they like to try to ruin my good reputation with all the pussycat, teddy bear crap). I am funny, sarcastic, smartass and I am very quick witted. I think most butches are just more distant and appear to be mean and cold and angry until they get to know someone because of all the judgmental people in the world. Most of my butch friends have been hurt many, many times and I think that we try to prevent that from reoccurring; however, once someone breaks through that shell, they would be surprised that we can be teddy bears or pussycats (shhhh don't tell anyone) who are still ferociously protective of those we love.

2007-05-09 20:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Actually, I have met very few "cold, angry" lesbians, and "lesbian" had nothing to do with it...just bitter people, and bitter people are found in both genders, all sexualities. My experience with butch gals has been very positive, I always know where I stand, we communicate on the same wavelength, joke easily, and some of my most loyal friends have been "butch lesbians." There is a very big difference in today's lesbians than from 30+ years ago..today, no one is out to prove they are butcher than Clint Eastwood, and the "butch/fem thing seems to be much less pronounced, at least to me. good luck, good question.

2007-05-09 15:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

i know a few and some of them can be great IF they like you as a person and respect you as a friend but they don't WATCH OUT and then there are ones like J who love everyone it just depends on the individual and again the samething can go to all humans not just butch lesbians that why there are terms like @ss hole and ***** if everyone was sweet and great we would not have these words in our vocabulary well take care and don't forget to SMILE

2007-05-10 02:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by giggles47532000 3 · 0 0

None of the butches I know are mean and cold and angry- they tend to be just like you described, always funny and witty and a little dirty-minded but in a good way.

It is, of course, the stereotype that butches are angry, but I just haven't seen it.

2007-05-09 15:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I disagree. I think that straight females are much more open to lesbians nowadays. As a college student, I have plenty of gay friends--female and male. I also have plenty of straight friends, and of those, I know several men who refuse to come to parties at my house if there are gay men there, whereas the women do not care one way or the other whether there is a gay female over or not. I think men are much more inclined to be homophobic.

2016-04-01 04:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

every person is different, and I think there are cold and angry lesbians as well as funny, sarcastic ones

2007-05-10 03:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I too have had very positive experiences with butch lesbians. Thats my "type", and I think they are very sexy!

2007-05-09 20:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Nope. Most of the strong lesbians I have met are very affectionate and charitable.

2007-05-09 21:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0 0

Most of the butch lesbians I know are big teddy-bears! The cold, hard, angry women I know are mostly femmes.

I still don't know WTF I am, do I have to have a label?

I'm just FTW.

2007-05-09 15:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by FTW 7 · 4 0

It is not about Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered at all, but it is about personality and class.

2007-05-09 15:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bounce Up 3 · 0 0

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