So i'm head over heels in lust with someone who I've just found out is bisexual. In my eyes, it doesn't make him any less than a man. After getting over my shock I found his bisexuality kind of sexy. So would you date a man who happens to be bisexual and why?
2007-05-09 14:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by Cat 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Definitely. There are so many reasons for bisexual men to be attractive to me. First and foremost, I'm bisexual myself, so I like having that aspect in common- it's a lot easier to share your feelings and understand each other when you know what it's like to desire more than one sex. Secondly, I find male-on-male intimacy very, very sexy! Very few things turn me on more. And even though I like to be monogamous and wouldn't want to open up our relationship, having the ability to share those fantasies with one another, to know that he likes men as well, is a dream. And lastly, I tend to find that bisexual men (bisexual people, really) are a lot more intelligent, open-minded, tolerant, and sexually adventuresome than straight guys. They rarely have hang-ups about enjoying every inch of their bodies exactly the way they want to, and they just seem better to me in that regard.
There are no reasons to not date a bisexual man- they are no more likely to cheat, want an orgy/group sex/threesome, be hornier, be diseased, etc., etc. than any straight man; those are myths about bisexuals.
Quite frankly, I'd actually prefer a bisexual man over a straight guy.
2007-05-09 15:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would date someone who is bisexual for the same reason I would date someone who is not bisexual. Because I am attracted to him. Just because he is bisexual, that will not make me more or less attracted to him. His sexuality doesn't determine his personality, after all. It's not as though I'd get any specific benefits from a guy being bisexual...I suppose a threesome with two men but I don't really want to be double-teamed. So it really doesn't make a difference.
2007-05-09 15:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by SheIsDeath 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I dated a bi sexual guy before and it did not make him any less of a man. I dated him because i wanted to and it turned me on the he was bisexual.
2007-05-10 05:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have no problems dating a bisexual man. The fact that he "swings both ways" wouldn't really be issue for me. As long as he loves me and only has eyes for me, that's all that matters.
2007-05-09 21:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by cafc2005 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nope, only because I'm a gay grrl and only date grrls! I have dated bisexual women.
If you like him, and the attraction is mutual, go for it!
2007-05-09 14:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes in a heartbeat
2007-05-09 14:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by charlies_girl112679 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
sure... As long as he had the qualities that I look for in a man..
2007-05-09 14:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think people can be attracted to both sexes, but true sexuality is not switch to be turned on an off. I believe bi-sexual men are actually gay men who like boobs.
2007-05-09 14:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by sweetmocha1 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Only if he`s emo(emo guys kissing is the sexxiest thing in the world),other than that it could get very awkward...trust me...
2007-05-09 14:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by fuddyduddy 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
nah
2007-05-09 14:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋