i dont like gay people arguing about we , gays, being natural or antinatural, i dont like when we try to "convince" anyone with "there have been researchs that state that gay is not a choice, it is just a genetic whatever and blabla"...
I am a person and gay and i live my life i dont excuse myself for being gay, dont need society to think i am natural or the demon or whatever they want to think, i dont need doctors to study me and give me a certificate of normality...if they want to study something weird they can study christians, or buddhists, or nuns or plumbers...I have friends, i have colleagues at work, i have neighbours and most of them dont give a s.... about what i am (if they do it privately i dont care) so if there are people out there who dont accept me because of their paranoids is not my problem and i dont want to have them around...and now i finish my speech in a gay manner (stereotyping, and what?).So now go walk out the door! (that to doctors in naturality and normalit
2007-05-09 14:21:33 · 14 answers · asked by alberto k 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i preach because i want to...because i have a boyfriend and even though sometimes i am not the best of the boyfriends, i love him...and i sing because i´m happy and i sing because i´m free...i say what i want what i really really want and amen.
2007-05-09 14:29:47 · update #1
the rant because i dont care what people say about me but not what people say in general...
2007-05-09 14:31:27 · update #2
the rant because i dont care what people say about me but not what people say in general...
2007-05-09 14:31:31 · update #3
i am not american and i dont know what soapbox pink is...away i am now and i think a very lucky away since in there (wherever that is) i can see that people are just very close minded and hate people just because...i am very lucky of being away and if i was closer i would thank you for your good advise
2007-05-09 14:33:28 · update #4
ava ava...yes for me what god thinks is soooooo important but since i dont know what that may be ( i would never commit the extremely mortal-ticket-to-hell-for-ever-and-ever-amen sin of just trying to figure out what he of all hes may think) i will just live my life and afterwards in the new life, judging day let he just tell me whatever he thinks of my life, my deeds and my clothes...and if i want to i will sing him "so now go, walk out the door" (depending if what he says to me pleases me or not)
2007-05-09 14:41:29 · update #5
kvj i dont live in the states i live in spain and in here gay people can get married...why??? maybe because in here gay people did something, not just bow to the people who can vote will...maybe because in here people care (at least more than in the u.s). Anyway i think it is superb if you want to live your life as "slavw" of the people who vote opinions...be free in your way
2007-05-09 15:02:04 · update #6
kjv sorry i didnt read the rev. thing and the gaychristiansociety thing otherwise i would not have answered
2007-05-09 15:06:29 · update #7
yes i think it may be ok to try to people understand but what people??? are we gonna change their minds in general??? just by posting in here??? people dont work that way, they wont accept us just because their "ideas" (or lack of idea) and that is all...so why should we care??? the weakest enemy is the one who cares about his opposite...i dont need to give others who wont accept me no matter what i say any kind of excuse about my life...if they cant accept because their education it is their problem....i am not calling a doctor to tell them i am normal, i dont care if they think i am gay because one day i woke up and decided it was time to be gay...what do i gain with caring about what they think and playing their match???
it is time to stop trying to convince and just living..
2007-05-09 15:17:21 · update #8
people are struggling to understand???? well lui i dont think they struggle at all they just judge and condemn...if they were struggling i would be the first to try to convince, but arent you tired of being constantly condemned without any trial???
2007-05-09 15:20:09 · update #9
Why the rant if you don't care what people think?
2007-05-09 14:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Darren 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, I'm gay too. But honestly...You don't feel a need for a certificate of normalcy? Yes you do. In fact, that's the entire reason you wrote this message!
The truth is, it matters very much to you whether or not you are viewed as normal. In fact, in your message, you yourself even gave us your measure for what you think NORMAL is. lol you said, "I have friends, I have colleagues at work, I have neighbours..." This is you saying...LOOK I'M NORMAL. lol You even committed the same "sin" you are telling everyone you hate, which is judging a person's normalcy. You said, "if they want to study something wierd they can study christians, or buddhists, or nuns or plumbers". What the hell is that???
You big stinking hypocrite! Listen, you don't need to preach to the world about how you are pursecuted as a gay man and beat down with scrutiny and judgmental remarks. This is why gay people get such a whiny reputation. Grow the hell up, man. If these people aren't worth your time worrying about then don't give it any airtime. Just live your life!
ps- i know that was kind of harsh, but my point is...if you don't think they are right to evaluate whether you are normal or not, then neither are u right to do it to them...and you did it ALLLLL throughout this message. Shame on you!
2007-05-09 14:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by dex_md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse yourself?
Why, do you have to go to the bathroom?
Oh, wait, you wrote more. Let me see here ... "don't like gay people arguing".... uh huh ..."genetic blahbla" yada yada yada... "don't need doctors to study me..." something-or-other... "I have" this and that and them so forth and so on.
I think I see what you are trying to say. Basically you don't care if people think you are following the devil by being a total sexual degenerate by being gay, am I right? Well here's an important fact for you to consider if you'll step off the soapbox for just a sec:
All those people out there - the ones we don't feel a need to explain ourselves to - have power to VOTE based on their opinions of us. If they believe that being gay is wrong, they will vote against us in the polling booth and dictate to us, Sovereign Citizens, how we must live our life! Wake up and smell the rainbow Skittles, baby! If you sit smuggly by, those ignorant people that you feel too high and mighty to explain yourself to are going to obliterate your very right to LIVE. Doesn't matter that no one has the power to dictate our rights. Are you gonna tell that to the police when they bash your door down after anti-gay laws are passed? So unless you want to live as a second class citizen for the rest of your life without even the protection of your right to marry, you better start stowing that arrogant and self righteous attitude and start opening your mouth (no pun intended).
-Rev. Jim Cunningham
GayChristianSurvivors.com
2007-05-09 14:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by kjv_gods_word 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear alberto: Sad to say that no matter where we go in this life time there will always be someone who disagrees with us , whether it be our politics, our skin colour or our sexual orientation.Keep this in your heart and remember it always:if when you lay your head on your pillow each night and you do so knowing that you are being the most open minded compassionate person that you can be each day, know that you have people who love and treasure you, that you are the world to them, you should sleep a guilt free sleep. You know there are people who refuse to understand, but also know there are people who walk their whole lives in the same shoes you do, that you are not alone."as long as you know how to love, you will survive..hey hey!"That was from a song right?! Blessings to you, friend!
2007-05-09 15:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about other people? They don't matter. The only one you should worry about is God? What does he think? Do you know what his thoughts are on homosexuality? No I'm not preaching, I'm just giving you something to consider.
The one that matters in the end to us all, in all your actions is God, he will be our judge. (if you believe in the bible) you probably have read the account of Sodem and Gamora. His thoughts were clear/concise/and to the point. And it also states that if you truely love God you will love the things he loves and hate the things that he hates! The Tora/Bible/and Koran all are religious books and they all state the same story of Sodem & Gamora, and this fact of Gods thoughts on the subject.
We as humans have freedom of choice, thanks to God, that's how he made us. And he also made us to be able to tell wrong from right, like Adam & Eve in the Garden. What choice did they make? What was their outcome? Did they know that it was wrong? Did they do it anyway? What was the price? Was it to much to pay for such a temperary and fleeting pleasure?
What are your thoughts?
Hi again.....Check out this website, please: What was found?
http://www.arkdiscovery.com/sodom_&_gomorrah.htm
In our Modern time....The People of Jesus day didn't believe him either and they had the proof before their own eye's, so even with proof will we as humans make the correct decision?
2007-05-09 14:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ava 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The arguments we put forth are to try to help people understand us. People are struggling to understand why we are the way we are, so we present the reasons we know of to try to enlighten them.
But I agree, science doesn't need to validate us. Whatever the reason in the end, I'm still a good person.
2007-05-09 15:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I know why the caged bird sings..."
I hear ya alberto.. I'm tired of all the arguing too. My sexual orientation is such a small part of who I am, and I don't really care why I'm gay or what made me gay. And if it's not that big of a deal to me, then why are all of these heterosexuals so worried about it? =)
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2007-05-09 17:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you protest too much! If you're happy with who you are, ignore the morons & move on. Idiots will always be Republicans, oh, I'm sorry, I mean, idiots will always be dinguses (plural for dingus).
2007-05-09 14:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by LA Law 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for you!!!
you live a good life and are a happy person!!!
i think if more people did the same thing there wouldn't be so much contention in the world
2007-05-09 14:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not to any extent further gay. yet you do sound a fairly boastful. you may not say "my manly body is so awesome..." with out sounding narcissistic. You admit you want women people (even although you reported we are "fatty and jellowy"...it truly is fairly nice...and no, i'm no longer both), so i does no longer assume you've been gay, yet there is continually the prospect of being bisexual.
2016-10-18 06:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by swailes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the world we all hope to achieve someday. If you can live your live that way now, go for it and bless you!
2007-05-09 14:32:44 · answer #11 · answered by mdbshop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋