I am 23 and 8 months along in my pregnancy. Inside I know this is what God is doing to better my life. Still I have moments when I feel ready and others when I want to run. Is this normal?
2007-05-09 14:17:07 · 18 answers · asked by Fe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yes your feelings are normal, but irrelevant..because ready or not....
:)
2007-05-09 14:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY NORMAL!!! I was 24 and my husband and I decided to get pregnant. It was totally planned and I wanted it so bad. Then as soon as the test read positive I was scared out of my mind and wondered what the heck I had done. It was like that all through my pregnancy. Even now, my son is 17 months old and I wonder if I'm really ready for this from time to time.
Don't worry, what you are feeling is normal and you know, I truly don't think it matters how long you wait, how successful you are, how many places you've been; you will always wonder if you are doing the right thing. I think it means you're going to be a good mom because you're already concerned. Good luck, you'll do great!
2007-05-09 14:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dommysmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! It is a big change coming into your life. Once that little bundle gets here you will be ready. Just think about having a little one that depends on you to feed it, clothe and love it. You have never been this way before, and it is normal to be nervous about it. I remember the feeling. Just hang in there and keep depending on God to help you. You have a blessing that many women will never have. I know several women that would love to have a baby, but for some reason or other can't. Best wishes. Now relax and enjoy preparing for that young 'un!
2007-05-09 14:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Wantstohelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are completely normal. I had those same thoughts for most of my pregnancy. My pregnancy was a complete surprise and there were several times when I doubted my ability to be a good mom. I considered myself very selfish and self absorbed, but after my daughter was born, I felt this intense love that I had never felt before. All of my fears and doubts disappeared as I looked into my daughter's eyes. Trust me, the minute you see your baby, those thoughts of running will disappear and you will understand the meaning of life. I know that sounds wierd, but its true. Hang in there, you will do great. I hope this helped.
2007-05-09 14:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by newman63114@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The prospect of being responsible for another life for 20 odd years can be overwhelming. On the other hand, one must see offspring as extension of our egos. That is realty why we propagate the species: to see little versions of ourselves and help nurture them along.
We are tested all along the way. Read How to talk SO That Children Will Listen, and How to Listen SO That Children Will talk. Also, Ginot: his books on child rearing.
If you are really antsy, it could be a vitamin deficiency. See if the doctor recommends a supplement or more fruit and vegetables.
2007-05-09 14:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No women are ready to have kids when they haven't had any yet. Children are the hugest responsibility in the world, but they're the greatest gift at the same time. Just chill, and take things as they come. You'll know what to do and when to do it, it's a motherly instinct. Good luck with your baby! :)
2007-05-09 14:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was pregnant i was so happy cause really i wanted 2 have a child . i was so excited ,i bouth books , i make research on Internet , i prepared my self 100% . even on due date i called z photographer 2 z hospital , i arrange decoration at hospital and home . i prepared present for all our Friends so i was living in heaven . and suddenly baby come, i forget everything , all my research, all z books i have read , they gave me z baby and said it's yours be a mom .
yes just as simple be a mum . so i was crying and crying ,my husband was working in another country .imagine i didn't know how 2 put a pampers . but my love 2 z baby , and god and support of z books (yes z books) i manege everything and i practice being a mum . it's z joy and z world . really i enjoy being a mother now with my second baby it was soooooooooooooo easy.
dear it will be very heard ,believe me , but be sure u will pass it .and z baby blues will be just a period 2 remember and laugh .
God luck and may Ur family be blessed
2007-05-09 14:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for you to be scared or have mixed feelings. However, when you finally see your child for the very first time, you will not regret it.
Parenthood is an instinct that we humans have. No one can teach you how to be a Mom, you will simply know what to do. It is hard to explain but you will be fine.
2007-05-09 14:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Green Skull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm now 36 weeks pregnant with my first child and I understand how you feel. I'm so excited but I'm also equally nervous about labor, and when my son finally arrives. How your feeling is completely normal. When I start to feel worried and unsure , I remind myself of the miracle happening inside of me and tha I was blessed for a reason.
2007-05-09 14:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i got very nervous my last 2 months. my hubby just said well it's too late to do anything about it, you should have said that before you went off your birth control. so don't worry it's normal. this is a huge thing about to happen in your life, and it won't be the same as it was, but it will be even better.
2007-05-09 14:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave women a natural instinct as to how to care for a child, so just go with your instincts. Yes, it's normal to be scared and confused. My wife is self-admitted wimp, but she did just fine.
2007-05-09 14:27:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋