things then it ends with him telling me he can't take this anymore and hes moving out.he sometimes leaves(he always comes back) but he mostly just gives me the silent treatment for a day or 2.I never yell back or sware and try to talk to him calmly but once he gets fired up about something i can't reason with him.I try to tell him i'm sorry he got angry with what i said but he will never listen and just says "whatever".Hes not like this with anyone else just me.Hes never hit me but i feel so sad after we fight i don't know what to do.
2007-05-09 14:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by kathylouse56749490 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please Take my advice and walk away now and Do Not Let him back into your Life.This is his Personality and it will not change but only get worse,I know you love him but when and if you marry this man it will not end but just be the beginning of a long and unhappy marriage wear you have to walk on egg shells all the time.
2007-05-09 14:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is either leave or yell right back with him. the only reason he keep doing this is because your letting him. Dont apologize for nothing. If you see he wants to act like a little kid and yell and not talk about it then let him all you have to do is walk away tell him if he dont want to act right then F**k off.
2007-05-09 14:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by it isnt easy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move a long he is not for you. He needs help, and will not admit to it or get help. He is not sorry he got angry or sweared at you so why do you apologize. It is not your fault.
Got out before he does hit or hurt you, he could kill you by the way he drives.
Believe in yourself, and move on.
2007-05-09 14:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out this relationship it is going nowhere and it will get worse.i know my first husband and i were together 24 years and he started that way after a couple of years together.i didnt say anything but after awhile i could not take the name calling,the insults,the temper tantrums and i gave as good as i got! dont let him do that to you.and all that fighting is worse on your kids if you have any and i hope you dont.i wish i had -i thought my kids were better if we stayed together but i was wrong! good luck.
2007-05-09 14:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has some anger management problems. This is not a good sign. It will only be a matter of time until he directs his anger on you. And his anger will only escalate. Do not accept this behavior from him. You're wise to break up now, before you get married.
2007-05-09 14:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋