you must be optimistic.ok? never give up.
what is true love? just think about it. it's something completely subjective, right?
i mean, someone may be really happy and says he found true love because he likes sex and he gets it by his girlfriend because she likes sex too. well sex is "true love" for him because he feels complete.
For others true love means to have interests in common.
For others love means understanding, tolerance care.
In other cases true love is all of them.
We can find true love in simple things.
true love has many faces. sometimes we find "true" love but havent realised it.
See what you want and if the other person can give it to you then you will FEEL true love.
You won't find it. it will find you. trust me.
2007-05-09 12:39:12
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answered by Lina 2
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First, let me say, i am terribly sorry on your loss. I know all too well what it's wish to lose a loved companion. I've lost many, nevertheless it did not relatively damage until I lost certainly one of my heart puppies last year. Studying your questions brought me back to that day and brought again various the grief I felt. The guilt hurts, however it's natural. It lasted for six months with me, will final longer or shorter depending on the way you handle the grief. But grieving is flawlessly usual. It's just a reaction to shedding that which we love. It is going to take you to the point of acceptance, where you are going to have an understanding of you did the whole thing that you just might and that your guinea pig wouldn't need you hurting. She'd want you to maneuver on. It might take a while, but you can get there. Simply go by means of your phases of grieve and certainly not consider embarrassed about it, irrespective of what number of humans let you know it was just a guinea pig. And some persons will, however there are these out there (like the various persons who have already answered) that recognize how a lot we adore our pets and the way a lot it hurts to lose them. Whether or not or not you suppose there is an afterlife where we are going to see our pets that now we have lost is a private determination that simplest which you can make. I feel that they continue to exist with us. Little matters will remind us of them in the course of our lives. Every time I hear a toy squeaking within the core of the night time, i'll feel of the canine I lost final 12 months. Each time a thunderstorm rolls in, i'll remember the way she'd p.C. The residence crying on account that she used to be so fearful of them. It's the little things that we used to take for granted a good way to bring them to the forefront of our intellect. So, in that manner, sure we will be able to see them once more. Might be no longer literally, but figuratively. In lots of approaches, whilst you quite love someone - be they flesh, furry, or scaly - they not ever relatively die. They depart paw prints on our hearts (I honestly obtained that quote from a poem, if you want to look it up). Many individuals think that pets go on to the afterlife just as they feel we do. They feel that if any one like a human can get in, then most likely an animal that certainly not knew hate, jealousy, or rage can. In case you consider that, then the answer for you is sure, you're going to. What I suppose becomes irrelevant on the grounds that I can't tell you think or what to consider. And sure, many men and women suppose in a location referred to as the rainbow bridge. It is stated to be a place between heaven and our world. A place where all pets that die take a seat and look ahead to their owners to die so that they can pass the "bridge" together. But you weren't a crappy owner, and i am sure she already knows that. What you just typed proves to me that you simply weren't a terrible owner. And after dropping my dog, I located a couple of web sites that helped by way of my grieving. I'm going to drop them in my sources and leave this reply with considered one of my favourite rates. "If there is a heaven, it's distinct our animals are to be there. Their lives become so interwoven with our possess, it could take greater than an archangel to detangle them." ~Pam Brown
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answered by idrish 2
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Heres a sad thought, if youre looking for it "again" does that mean it wasnt true love in the first place? I dont think Ive found mine yet. But thats sort of exciting because it means its still out there somewhere! Dont you wish we had little maps with big a big "x" showing us where to go? Sometimes life is kind of perplexing isnt it?LOL Its okay, it'll all work out just fine.
2007-05-09 12:17:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Everyone is different. Like I said before , it takes time, I'm sure you will but you may never love another the same way you love her♥
2007-05-09 12:16:07
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answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7
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Some days I feel the same way. Other times, I truly believe, with all my heart, that there is one more great love left out there for me.
2007-05-09 12:17:07
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answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7
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Yes I have! I don't ever want to again. I met the best, nothing else compares. I will never let anyone else in!
2007-05-09 12:20:46
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answered by ganbrightar1 2
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no. I've never felt that way. in fact, I never thought I'd find it in the first place. it found me.
2007-05-09 12:16:51
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answered by Juan Sanchez Villa-Lobos Ramirez 7
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I divorced 2 years ago, and I feel like that now :o(
But, i dont go looking. I have 4 kids....
2007-05-09 12:17:04
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answered by Wendy 5
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Yeah. When you least expect it - she'll be there. I'm a believer now. Hit me like a ton of bricks.
2007-05-09 12:17:03
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answered by Anonymous
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I feel like i will never find love. It sure hasn't found me.
2007-05-09 12:16:13
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answered by muse vero 3
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