5 days later he still wont answer the phone! He knew we were trying for a baby. He is hurting me again, what shall I do if I am pregnant?
2007-05-09 09:11:13 · 18 answers · asked by sunnygirl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Thanks everyone for your support, I know I have to get rid of him, it just hurts soooooooooo bad as I loved him sooooooo much. Pity he wont love us!!!
2007-05-09 09:35:27 · update #1
We have been together 3 years, travelled and are in our 30s now!
2007-05-09 09:37:58 · update #2
Well he most definitely sounds like a jerk but let's hope your not pregnant and if you are not then I would say try and move on because if he has you hurt before, it will keep happening again and again. Now if you are pregnant then both you and him have a responsibility and he would need to step up as a man. If he decides he does not want to be a part of you and the child's life then you have a big decision to make on whether or not you want to keep the baby, if you decide to keep the baby, just be a strong woman and take care of yourself and your child..you don't need a man's help (although it is helpful, but you don't need it) there is always family and friends willing to back you up. Hope some of this helps. :-) Try not to stress him...he should be chasing you! Stop calling him & he will notice you stopped & will come around again. If you are pregnant then HUNT his a$$ down to let him know. :-)
2007-05-09 09:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by ksmith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this episode. If he doesn't answer your calls, drop him like a hot potato! Don't go chasing him. Have some pride. You are worth better than someone's easy lay.If you're pregnant, decide if you want to keep it or not. Many women have done it and are alright. Be strong and decide what's best for the baby and you.
But if you're not, the next man in your life, get married first.
Good Luck.
2007-05-09 09:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my sister was once pregnant the primary 2 instances, she honestly ended up having to be caused when you consider that she was once now not dilating. The 3rd time, her water broke however she wasn't dilating (bizarre huh?) so that they needed to deliver her medications to check out to begin dilation, and the fourth being pregnant got here and went on time table however with a prolonged exertions. So, I do not know approximately signs earlier than exertions, however I desired to percentage that you don't constantly have signs at dwelling earlier than birthing. Sometimes, the medical professional will simply name you up and say HEY, GUESS WHAT!! WE'RE GONNA BRING A BABY INTO THE WORLD TODAY WHETHER IT WANTS TO COME OUT OR NOT!!! at the same time different instances, your water simply simple breaks and you are stuck by means of shock. Good success :-)
2016-09-05 13:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance. Sounds like an asshole. If you are pregnant then good for you. You can raise a baby as a single mother, women do it all the time, but you don't need him. He sounds abusive and probably wouldn't treat your child right either. I hope for your sake that you aren't pregnant, but I think it's time to kick him to the curb. Stop calling him. Of course it's easy for him. All he did was get laid...what does he care about what happens next? Do yourself a favor and get out now.
2007-05-09 09:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsar99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with alomst everyone above, leave him. He didn't want to spend his 'precious' time with you, screw him! Men would much rather look for someone new to have sex with rather than see what they had right in front of them was probable the best thing that would ever happen to them! And think about if you are pregnant and he did stay how we he be? The same? Then he would keep hurting you AND the baby, so save yourself the heartache hunny! Good luck!
2007-05-09 09:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Misty B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together?? Not long enough by the sounds of it. Don't waste your time on someone who won't spend theirs with you. If you're prego, you get him for child support and try to see if he wants to be a part of atleast the baby's life, if not the both of you and if he doesn't want anything to do with either....just know that you'll be okay, lots of women go through it.
2007-05-09 09:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I want to say I'm so very sorry this has happened to you. One day he will realize the loss is his, and I personally hope he is made to suffer merrcilessly for it. There is a good man out there somewhere for you, and I hope you find him. Secondly, I hope what that idiot did doesn't make you think that all men are like him. Case in point: My brother is doing everything in the world he can to be a better father to his child than his father was to him. And so far, he is doing very well. Like I said earlier, there is a good man out there somewhere. And I sincerly hope you find him. Good Luck.
2007-05-09 09:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you go on without him. I had a guy that was going to marry me. I got pregnant and he stood me up for a date one day and didnt' answer the phone anymore when I called... My kid is now 7 and we have never heard from him! I don't know how they can do that????
2007-05-09 09:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did you want to get pregnant? Sounds like this isnt a stable relationship. Cut your losses. Quit calling him. Move on. And quit worrying about it if your pregnant, and if youre really worried, nows a good time to look into taking steps to stop it.
2007-05-09 09:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by lillilou 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, hopefully you are not pregnant. This is not the kind of man you wantto be having a child with anyway. Good luck!
2007-05-09 09:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋