You got to choose the other person (even choose if you want it to be a girl or guy). Would you be into it?
2007-05-09 08:57:39 · 38 answers · asked by MAGA2020 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Sorry for the bad grammar, BTW.
2007-05-09 08:59:15 · update #1
I'd slap him in the face.
2007-05-09 09:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If my husband would suggest such a thing, I would be out the door. There is a reason why you and your wife "role play" with those fantasies. Once you start to act upon them, that's when the trouble begins. How would you feel if your wife was turned on by two men? Would you be willing to satisfy her fantasy? You have been married for 17 1/2 years and your sex life has been good thus far, why would you want to start problems now? Perhaps you missed the part in your vows where you swore to FORSAKE ALL OTHERS. That's something you and she should brush up on. Thank you and good luck.
2016-05-19 01:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be happy at all.
First, I would wonder why I'm not enough for him. It would cause a lot of bad self esteem issues for me.
Secondly, as to who you would invite in, I wouldn't want some one I know to be the third person, but I also wouldn't have sex with a complete stranger either.
Thirdly, I would be really concerned about what would happen afterwards. I would wonder if I could ever satisfy him on my own.
I would also always wonder if he liked being with the other person more than being with me. It would mess me up for a really long time.
So other girls might be cool with it, and I'm generally a giving person, but I won't share my man with anyone!
Even if I got to choose!
Besides, some times the fantasy is much better than the real thing!
2007-05-09 09:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by GambitGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful when asking these kinds of questions, to get a good answer sometimes a person may get points taken away for using adult content even though they do not use any offensive language. This is one of those iffy question to answer.
As a Therapist, I know what some of my clients have been through and that is jealousy. Sometimes the other person gets liked more because they end up being very good. So I would say be very careful.
2007-05-09 09:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on the person, not everyone will feel the same and not every out come will be the same.
But I can say been there done that. After it was over I felt dirty and I never looked at my husband (ex now) the same. I seen him as a user for talking me into it and going through with it. I loved him so much that I felt I had to please him and would do what ever I felt I had to to do so. He knew that and took advantage of it. But everything changed after that.
2007-05-09 09:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd think, "At what point did I go to bed with a man and wake up with a horned out 16 year old boy?" People ignorant enough to be siked about a threesome deserve the drama that ensues thereafter.
2007-05-09 09:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Scadle 4 · 12⤊ 1⤋
i have always wanted to try one but i honestly could not do it with my boyfriend or husband. i would get too jealous. if was just hooking up with someone and they wanted to involve another girl i would be down with it because it's something i have always wanted to try before i settle down. i would be offended if my boyfriend asked me however. i would feel like i wasn't enough for him. and from what i have seen when people in relationships have threesomes it causes problems. the man will continue to sleep with the other girl because it's something new and what not. so i would if it was with a hook up but not if i was in a relationship.
2007-05-09 09:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would feel the relationship is over! would not put up with it till the water gets hot. Kick em to the curb! If he asks it of u once guarenteed that he will definately persue other kinky things!
2007-05-09 09:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by eannhil 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you shouldn't have a threesome if you are in a relationship, it will only cause problems. If you aren't in a relationship then you've got a green light.
2007-05-09 09:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by smash6385 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Do you love who you're with? Would you want someone else touching him/her...what if they do it better than you?! What if they catch feelings for the other person...
Do you not respect your girl? Hope she picks a guy - and he's more of a man!
2007-05-09 09:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by °bigÐell°™ 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I would be into it, given that I was secure in his commitment to me. Sounds paradoxical that he would ask then, but I would want to participate if it was his fantasy, not if he's just looking to bang someone else.
2007-05-09 09:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋