i just found out im pregnet and no 1 knows im only 17 and i live with myaunt and uncle b/c my parents kicked me out i cant tell my boyfriend cause well its not his and i cant tell the guys idk what he will do and idk how to tell my family if any one can help please do
~ cyndi
2007-05-09 06:33:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
i know it will be rough but you need to tell someone you trust and they may be mad at first but they will come around i was scared to tell my family when i had my little girl two days before i turned 18 its okay you will be a great mom and a baby is a gift all though you cheated witch is not right you must tell your bf and is he loves you than maybe you all can work Thur this matter but you need to tell your aunt because you and the baby need med care so you are healthy
2007-05-09 06:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first place to start is with your aunt and uncle. Sit down with them (or even just your aunt if that makes you more comfortable) and be honest. Tell them/her that you are pregnant, and what you are planning to do. If you haven't decided what to do yet, ask them for help. You do have to tell the father eventually because it's his baby too and he has a right to know. If you decide to keep it and raise it then you will need his help and he needs to provide that to you both.
I had a friend in high school in almost the exact situation. She lived with foster parents though and when she eventually talked to them, they were understandably upset. However they got over it and accepted that they couldn't change what was done. My friend didn't want to abort it and she knew she couldn't provide for a baby so they all decided that the best option was adoption. She chose open adoption and picked a couple she knew. To this day she still gets to see her "daughter" and receives pictures and updates all the time. But the most important thing is that her foster family supported her with this even when her own family would not. If your aunt and uncle have taken you in, obviously they care a great deal about you. Show them the respect they deserve by being honest with them as soon as you can. Good luck!
2007-05-09 06:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dommysmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are going to find out. It is better you tell them right away. Then you are sure to get all the medical attention you need.
I would start with your aunt. It seems you and she may have a better relationship.
The father deserves to know, he can be the last you tell, once you have the support of your family behind you.
If you need help talking to your parents, make sure there is someone there you can trust, a pastor, a teacher, a mentor, somone to hold your hand and give you positive moral support.
Best of luck to you!
2007-05-09 06:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How far along are you? Usually you should wait until all the scary stuff is over before telling anyone, BUT since you live with your aunt and uncle, I'd start there and worry about your boyfriend and the babies daddy later. Good luck!
2007-05-09 06:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find an adult you can trust NOW!!! You need to take care of yourself for your unborn child. Maybe the adult you trust can help you with ways to tell your family. It is important to start gathering support right now, as it will be a long, hard road ahead. Good luck sweety.
2007-05-09 06:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number one thing you should be concerned about right now is that baby's health. Nothing else is as important. So suck it up and tell your family so you can get the support and encouragement you need to have a healthy baby.
2007-05-09 06:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by amber 18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really gotta talk to someone since your aunt took you in I suggest you start there, be honest and have a good conversation with her, I'm sure she will help you figure out things, Good Luck.
2007-05-09 06:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by shorte716 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call a crisis pregnancy clinic. They have licensed counselors who can help you sort it all out and figure out what to do. It's free, and confidential.
Good luck!
2007-05-09 06:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually the truth will come out tell your most confidant you will need someone to help you thru this - Breathe and release ... Good Luck !!!!!!
2007-05-09 06:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by samiyahlynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but ur gonna have to come out and tell ur Aunt and Uncle.
That would be best they might be able to help u.
2007-05-09 06:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by NickyNawlins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋