thanks for all your answers. I think I have to mention that I am already with her for 7 months. We went to eachother family etc. She loves me and I truly believe she isn´t playing any games with me. BUT 30 guys is a lot, should you bother?
2007-05-09 05:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My number is high. Below 30, but high none the less. When I got involved with my husband, I had put my "wild years" behind me. I was ready for a respectable relationship. I had been celibate for over a year (tested clean of STDs), and it was because of that fact that my BF (husband now) was willing to give me a chance. We have been married 7 years, and I have NO desire for another man. In fact, the idea of another man besides my husband touching me grosses me out. As a side note, the added benefit of my experience in the bedroom has come in VERY handy.
A wild girl can make a good wife, if she is willing to move past her old behaviors and establish new healthy/monogamous ones.
2007-05-09 06:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand the problem. Is it the flirting or the 30 guys, both, or that maybe your number is less? I'm not trying to be insulting, I just don't understand why the number should be an issue. Your number might be high for someone else, would you consider yourself less than worthy based purely on the number of people you slept with? I think the bottom line is not the number of people but the character of the woman. And if that is to your satisfaction then the number is nothing. What I can't figure out is why on earth she told you. Most women, and I do mean most, always lie about that number. You shouldn't be surprised if you find out that other women you dated, loved, encountered who seemed very "nice" girls had numbers higher than that. The point is quit obsessing about something so insignificant if you love her. And if this is too much of a problem, then maybe she isn't the one for you. Better to let HER go, if you can't let IT go.
2007-05-09 13:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gabi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's lying and has slept with more than 30... ;)
2007-05-09 13:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by wikidwig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would matter if she slept with 100 guys (or other). So long as she's had her fill (get it?...nv) Anyway, she's with you now and that's all that matters.
2007-05-09 13:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hmmm? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she through? I mean forever and ready for one guy, you? Only you can find this out.
2007-05-09 12:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man each leaves his/her lives man you make it what you want it to be. She just choose something that is sacred and gave it away thats scread up. Just ask this question to yourself what does she have left to give to you? (NOTHING)
2007-05-09 14:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. X 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have to ask yourself. I hope you are not her 31'st.
2007-05-09 13:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATS IN THE PAST IS IN THE PAST. PEOPLE CAN GROW IN TIME
2007-05-09 13:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by MS. SWEET T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds awfully slu*tty, that's for sure...
2007-05-09 13:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by sillycanuckpei 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋