I had this dream twice that there are two anacondas that are very big. At first i see the big black and yellow one and it is getting close to my baby then another one appears (it is yellow and red) and tries to get her also they start to yell and scream at my husband to get the baby.....But he can never get near the baby cuz the snakes try to bite him every time he tries to reach for her.....
2007-05-09 05:14:00 · 25 answers · asked by kidi_69 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My husband is the father and I do trust him around the baby we have four children together...
2007-05-09 05:26:30 · update #1
Snakes = fear
Big black and yellow = things that stand out
Yellow and Red = Alert, danger
Subconsciously you have some fear. You are seeking for protection. Seems like your husband does not give you the protection you need. You projected a big snake to tell you that this fear is more than your husband can handle. This could be related to his job. You feel insecure about your family. That is why your baby may be the victim in the dream.
Basically, this dream is about anxiety of things around you. I guess your husband will be involved into whatever that is to cause you dream of that. Again, my guess is either his job you feel which is not safe or some finanical difficulties you are experiencing now.
2007-05-09 07:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We need some more info about how the dream made you feel...because that's what dreams are really about. There are two main types of dreams: 1) Wish-fulfillment and 2) Your mind dealing with emotional issues. This does not seem like a wish-fulfillment dream...unless you actually want your husband and baby attacked by giant snakes!
This dream is about insecurity. Somehow in your life you are afraid that you are unable to protect what is vulnerable. You are afraid that even your husband is unable to protect this vulnerability. This dream is also about how you handle situations that you cannot control. There's always an element to life of the unexpected. You're afraid of losing something to what you can't control. Can you think of something in your life like that?
If your husband is not someone that you can count on, this dream could be about the frustration and disappointment you feel towards him. If he is normally a strong figure in your life, then it might mean that you are aware of something that may hurt him if you reveal it. If your baby is very young, you may just be acutely aware of how innocent and fragile s/he is, and you hope that you and your husband can protect him/her.
Are there people in your life that could be the snakes? Am I correct in reading that "they" (the snakes) are the ones yelling for him to get the baby? Maybe you have family and friends that believe that you or your husband are doing something that they don't like or agree with?
Another way of looking at it is that you are everyone in your dream. You are you, nearly helpless, only able to shout for help. You are your husband, brave but not necessarily effective. You are the snakes...you could be causing your own issues. You are the baby...vulnerable.
Ultimately, only you can know what it really means to you.
2007-05-09 12:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by backwardsinheels 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guesses, without knowing more about your life:
Maybe you feel that your husband isn't connecting with this baby? Something is keeping him from doing that? (Could be as simple as you're upset that he doesn't want to feed the baby at meal time or stay up with her at night, or maybe he missed her birth because of some freak thing, or maybe you feel like he didn't really want any more kids this time... you know, something that would put up a wall between him and the baby. Or something that YOU see as putting up a wall between them).
Maybe you think his job is taking up all his time and that's keeping him from being there for the baby?
Maybe your husband is not the focal point, you are. Do you feel somehow less capable of taking care of this baby, and the dream could just be your mind's way of going (Aaah! No one can take care of my baby!) or maybe did you have complications with the baby that would make you nervous about its safety?
Maybe the baby's not the focal point. Maybe it's your relationship w/ your husband. Like you don't feel that he's there for you, or you don't consider him a powerful person anymore...
Maybe you feel that life is out to get you, and everything in the dream is just an illustration of that.
Think about it. Only you know. could be something as simple as you asked your husband to do the dishes last night and he didn't, so in your dream you're asking him to do something more important, and he can't/won't do that either...
2007-05-09 13:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by thegirlwantstoknow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The three main subjects of your dream:-
-Your husband
-The snakes
- the baby (point to be noted: YOUR baby)
The discernable state of things:-
-You, as a mother, are worried for your baby's safety
-You know you are helpless when you are confronted with a fight.
-Your husband is better equipped to take action but is you think he is either not there for the both of you when you need him or he is not 'strong' enough
- The snakes could represent an actual real-life fear of snakes (that may have been started by a movie you had seen) or they could represent a random life-threatening danger (to your baby)
- The fact that they scream at your husband is a taunt. They know he can't do anything.
The actual meaning or central theme of the dream may be:-
-Insecurity, fear that you aren't prepared for any danger that my befall you.
-Fear of losing your daughter (If this is a daily worry of yours, please talk to a counsellor- it will help)
-An actual, true, real-life fear of snakes (or anacondas in particular)
If you want a more psychosexual analysis:-
-It could mean there is more to how you gave birth to your daughter than you're comfortable with.
- You're scared of male dominance in your daughter's future.
- You think your husband is hiding something from you that may directly or indirectly involve the baby.
-You're hiding something from your husband that may directly or indirectly involve your baby.
- It could just be your mind potraying your sexuality in a particularly vivid way, and throwing your baby into the dream for good measure.
2007-05-09 12:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Salazar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well im not too sure what your dreams mean hehe i kidna forgot what snakes represent but i do know a way you can get rid of these dreams, try having your husband take care of your baby with or infront of you, do things that all of you guys do together, and both take care of your baby without it having to be an obligation, like dont let it be force, like if he wants you to give the baby a bath, only do it if you really want to, otherwise be honest. Seeing that he couldnt reach to the baby could me you arent confident about him.
2007-05-09 12:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by freakenbeliever 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are only dreams-they can never be true always, coz they are seen with a sub-conscious mind! Dont worry-God is always with your baby to protect him from all evil!
Besides, this could be an idea to scare from the Devil!
One more aspect could be-the white and black anacondas represent the day and the night and you and ur hubby have to take care of ur child day and night from any ill-happenings and health!
Relax!
2007-05-09 12:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a little girl, and you have hidden anxiety about her future. You know how it is to be a woman - that when he grows and goes through her teenage years, she will be faced with - boys with their wild hormones. These young men will not have the due respect for your daugther. It is up to your husband to protect her from these accosts.
You are eager for him to protect your daughter from being violated by men in the future. It is his responsibility to teach her how a real man is - by the way he treats you. She will likely seek a man, consciously or not, that treats her like her father treated her mother.
You have a fear that he will be able to protect your daughter from the men that will try to date and spend time with your daughter. It's imperative that you and your husband have a good strong relationship of trust with your daughter, a lot of communication, so your daugther will seek a husband with that same quality.
2007-05-09 12:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you were pregnant, did you ever fear you would lose the baby? Did this happen to anyone close to you or did you see it in a movie while pregnant?
You have deep-rooted fears that something will happen to your child. I don't know if this stems from some guilt you have or simply that you can't get over the worry of something happening to him or her.
Was your husband there for you during your entire pregnancy? It may be that you fear his ability to provide for the two of you.
2007-05-09 12:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mark D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the two snakes represent work and recreation, and every time your husband tries to get close to the baby, which represents Christmas, then the dog leaps in from outer space and collapses the chemistry set behind the refrigerator.
2007-05-09 12:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by liver_n_jello 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's your overprotective nature as a mother that's turning into dreams. Anacondas represent a tight hold on something. So, perhaps you're afraid of losing your baby to something that might tightly hold onto him/her.
2007-05-09 12:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Traqqer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋